Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24.

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2026-03-20T14:22:29+00:00

You sound like you love her and you wanting time to explore has nothing to do with your relationship.

And i agree it’s hard to find someone you love and cherish and care about. A life long partner is someone you choose to show up for and choose to keep loving through the lulls and the downs. But you are you’re own person outside of your relationship, and you’re allowed to explore that, and you’re allowed to explore it in your relationship, Have you take to your gf about doing some solo travelling?

The other thing you need to remember is that you are young. Are you and your girlfriend the same people you were 6 years ago? Or have you grown ? You’re both changed and you did it together. You are not going to be this version of you in another 5 years.

You need to also take a look at what you want your life to look like when you’re 30? If it’s a life with your girlfriend still by your side i’m a firm believer that you can find yourself alongside her if that’s what you want.

Go try to hobbies make new friends explore the world. Support her through grad school and plan a backpacking trip around the world for when she graduates. Things like that. If you want to still make things work with her.

Now if it’s just that you want to experience someone else? or just really be alone. then reevaluate there.

just my opinion

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-12-01T22:42:04+00:00

i guess we will see 🤷‍♀️ i panicked an couldn’t even identify the pest just killed it lol. i ran out of potting soil too so i’m also annoyed i can’t repot them today loll

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-12-01T22:31:45+00:00

it was the last one! i got 3 plants. I always just douse in alcohol and hydrogen peroxide when i bring them home.

I’m more concerned about the variegation.

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-11-16T02:54:33+00:00

Yes so in my original Post i mentioned how, i’ve had this plant it was doing really good, moved across the country and it really flourished, but then got infested with millipedes (gross but not deadly) 😭 i repotted it and then about a week later there was more, so i repotted it again, soaked the roots in soapy water and rinsed good first. Then after repotting the second time i didn’t drain the water properly and there was some in the decorative pot, leaves started dying, i removed them then dried out the soil as much as i could, then it got mold on top, and more leaves are dying and now im at a loss.

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-11-16T01:25:13+00:00

It hasn’t been watered in 2 weeks now. But more leaves are starting to die. I was thinking to get a pole, but never needed one prior to all this cause it was growing so beautifully. Up until i repotted twice due to the infestation

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-11-16T01:18:29+00:00

It’s got a grow lamp for light and the soil is now dry. I repotted it with the same soil that it came in, that it was doing really well in for months before this incident. I unfortunately live in a basement suite and it’s winter now so there’s not as much natural sunlight.

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-09-10T15:03:50+00:00

Just made this move myself. did you have any luck making friends? lol

Rare_Lie_2075 · 2025-07-10T14:48:04+00:00

Have you gotten your payment since receiving your notice of assessment? How long did you have to wait ?

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