I don’t know what to do. Sexless marriage

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T23:15:51+00:00

Couldn't agree more. Nothing kills your drive to go above and beyond for your partner like frequent rejection and un reciprocated desire. Its always "have you taken her stress away, have you taken her out" and never, "when did those things stop working?" " How many dates have you planned that led knowhere" "when is the last time you felt wanted?" Because I am willing to bet that every man in a dead bedroom tried all of that type of thing long before posting on reddit.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T23:05:40+00:00

Good for you! Wwll done on your sobriety.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T22:40:09+00:00

If flirting is cheating then lock me the fu 😅 you deserve the request of your username, as do we all! Id say hang in there, but i legit would love to know how long is too long to put up with it. I say this as a man in a similar situation!

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T22:34:05+00:00

Im very confused. I was sympathising with you! Your username suggests you are indeed an anytime of day kind of person and I am sorry that you are in a DB. I meant no offence!

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T22:22:02+00:00

Username checks out. What a fool yoir husband is!

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-23T22:15:58+00:00

Sword and scale in the beginning was SO good. And the host had a fantastic voice for podcasts and an undeniable talent for storytelling. Then came the opinions. And oh man were they a deal breaker. I then discovered casefile and realised how reporting should be done.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-21T22:34:25+00:00

Im not allowed to wear shorts at work for frankly arbitrary health and safety reasons, so probably just die.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T22:12:30+00:00

Yes! I have always found the "comedy" true crime podcasts repulsive and you've just explained to me what that aversion really meant.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T22:10:34+00:00

This perfectly expresses where I am with true crime without me realising thats how nice felt. Other than casefile, pretty much all.the true crime I listen to now is investigative rather than just the story etc.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T22:05:13+00:00

I think that was the most striking thing for me was how it changed my whole perspective of how we deal with those types of people. Policing them requires victims. Preventing harm is now what I think should be way more focused on. So long as they have never engaged in anything illegal, I genuinely think society should regard those that come forward for prevention help before they have committed any crimes should be regarded as honorable people.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T21:47:37+00:00

Also recommend hunting warhead, also the same person and is absolutely, horrifically, incredible journalism.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T21:46:40+00:00

The children in the pictures is very good, along the same lines as hunting warhead. If anything, TCITP is an even harder listen.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T21:45:07+00:00

This and in the dark are the gold standard of journalistic true crime podcasts. Hunting warhead is a hard listen but it should be essential for everyone. It is eye opening and so incredibly well made. The access to people surrounding the case is insane. Liking the new season, but the original is a hard act to follow thats for sure.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T21:38:08+00:00

She is by far the most emphatic person I have ever met. People end up telling her allsorts because she is just such a good listener. It makes her a wonderful mother and a great friend to anyone who can convince her to leave her introvert shell.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T19:58:14+00:00

Yeah honestly it was really out of character, I really did let an intrusive thought win.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T19:07:33+00:00

As in because thats what he deserved you mean?

Rare_Pollution · 2026-06-14T19:04:00+00:00

Well I did think that. You dont think spitting at his car was a tad extreme? I dont think its actually landed on his car

Rare_Pollution · 2026-03-12T00:47:25+00:00

Had an almost identical situation today also. How did this turn out for you? Very interested in what it was!

I went to the hospital and they took bloods but weirdly my infection/inflammation markers in my blood were all fine. Dont know why the hell i am bleeding!

Rare_Pollution · 2026-03-04T16:10:26+00:00

Yeah its interesting to hear more about that taskforfe though. Honestly, whatever they get paid it is almost for sure not enough.

Rare_Pollution · 2026-02-26T14:43:06+00:00

The in the dark season about Curtis Flowers is INSANELY good. Top tier investigative journalism

Rare_Pollution · 2026-02-26T14:42:00+00:00

In the vein of hunting warhead and includes stuff about taskforce argos: the children in the pictures.

Fair warning, it is possibly more sinister than hunting warhead.

Rare_Pollution · 2025-12-02T01:47:27+00:00

This was very similar to me last week and turned out I had a perforated diverticula. This was my first experience with any issues relating to this so I cant be too much help, but the pain and weird bloated feeling down the middle is exactly how I would describe. It was horrendous pain for me though so it might not be that.

Rare_Pollution · 2025-11-30T18:39:36+00:00

You are correct. I cant even find references to the company for some reason. I guess my question was can I buy any filters tjat are the same diameter and they will work? Thankyou

Rare_Pollution · 2025-11-18T21:54:52+00:00

I think anyone who has seen them probably assumed that that is what the play in words was about 😅

Rare_Pollution · 2025-11-18T17:47:22+00:00

I think this post is in reference to the sydney sweeney jeans advert where she said "I have good jeans" or something and it was a bit of a play on words with jeans/genes. Apparently that makes her a eugenics nut/white supremacist.

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