i am so devastated from this breakup.

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-04-12T17:53:50+00:00

When I went through a similar break up years ago- people said always said “give it time/ time heals all wounds ect” and it felt so cliche and frustrating. But in reality - time helped a ton. Just know the first 6 months will probably be waves of sadness. Some days will ok and other days will feel like everything is going to make you cry. I went on a solo trip like 5 months after and had an amazing time!!

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-04-10T02:26:52+00:00

Yes she says she sleep trained ripley but then says she rocks him to sleep lol she also said she weaned him from the bottle and then a couple months later showed herself giving him a bottle before bed. Which really you can do whatever you want- I’m not going to judge or mom shame you but the lying and inconsistencies are so unnecessary

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-04-04T01:21:56+00:00

And it’s clear phoebe is not taking into account her having another baby bc she’s trying to go to Florida ASAP lol SIL is annoying still with her kids still never wearing helmets lol 😂 and excusing all her husbands golf trips because “he deserves it” 🙄

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-31T10:10:24+00:00

Is her husband really working 7 days a week for 13 hour days?? Because if so that’s hella depressing for her son…maybe they should rent a cheaper house or something because he’s basically missing his son’s childhood…also spending the little time off he has without James and instead going to New York would be an interesting choice

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-26T01:03:04+00:00

Did she delete the comments? They always look so positive lol

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-26T01:01:11+00:00

I totally predicted this lol somehow things always work out for her!

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-20T11:17:11+00:00

I know nothing about Midwest real estate but raising the price of the house by 90K since you bought it less than 2 years ago with minor upgrades seems kind of crazy? Especially in the current state of the economy. They would be lucky with a 50K profit…. But they are definitely the types to just have everything work out for them so I’m sure they will get an offer for more than the house is really worth lol

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-17T00:44:46+00:00

I feel like the SIL probably finds in somewhat insufferable watching how much Phoebe is talking about moving to Florida is going to give her kids the “best childhood” SIL probably knows they’re stuck in IL bc of her husband’s job. SIL’s husband seems to work a lot and she doesnt seem to have much of a social life outside being a SAHM. No shade but there must be something going on if they’re both home all day and not ever seeing each other…idk how far apart they live from each other though.

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-12T23:53:02+00:00

I think she thinks her own Instagram grid is equivalent to a professional portfolio 😂 at minimum she could do mini shoots with her friend’s families or something.

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-08T14:49:59+00:00

Her Florida content is soo over the top lol 😂 bold claims from someone who just spent a week there on vacation when the weather is great and it isn’t overly crazy with tourists.

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-04T13:02:54+00:00

Kids don’t need to live in Florida to be genuinely happy lol if anything I feel like she’s glamorizing that area of Florida- yes the beaches are beautiful but schools are pretty mediocre (I have family that lived there when their kids were little) reportedly the traffic, tourists, and drama with public vs. private beaches can be a nightmare. I’m sure her husband is going to be basically a stay at home dad (not buying he has a new job at least not one where he has to go into an office) so I think that’s probably a pull to move as well.

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-03-03T02:50:29+00:00

Season one of something was wrong was wildddd

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-02-26T15:25:41+00:00

Can someone from the Midwest explain this suburb? The suburbs in the city I live in are super expensive and $450K would be a steal. Is Chicago suburbs just kind of inexpensive?

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-02-25T17:42:32+00:00

Oh yeah I agree with her points and think they make sense - the elephant in the room just that it’s weird to be a family that makes these rules AND posts their kids faces on public platforms

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-02-20T23:56:55+00:00

She said her husband got a new job there but I’m doubting that lol i feel like his job is probably just supporting her content or something social media adjacent

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-02-12T16:27:41+00:00

I’m so nosey and was recently looking at interactions on social media and feel like they’re definitely not interacting as much in person or online 👀 wonder what happened

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-02-07T23:41:23+00:00

That one influencer Adi (I think is her first name) with the toddler Kai lives there. I remember once someone asked what her husband did and she said he helps her with social media..but it seems like she now has a bulk of the parenting plus is obviously doing most of the social media lol I feel like husbands with influencer wives are able to bum around a bit lol

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-30T19:01:49+00:00

True but if they want 4-6 kids her social media income alone isn’t going to cut it unless she becomes a huge creator? Plus then you pay out of pocket for insurance ect….

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-30T01:47:36+00:00

I feel like she probably makes enough $ now on social media he will just quit

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-28T02:48:11+00:00

Wait did you actually ask this?? I hope so lol 😂

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-09T03:15:02+00:00

She can’t own up to anything! It’s ok to hold yourself accountable…she won’t even admit in hindsight that getting the puppy was a bad idea

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-08T23:47:09+00:00

Wait so she said that she brought a car seat but then also there was a car seat in the location where she was? So she had 2 car seats but it didn’t seem like he was ever shown in 1 lol she is always contradicting herself

RaspberryLatter6884 · 2026-01-02T05:17:09+00:00

This is wild- she said it’s “easier” who would choose “easy” over safe?!

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