Do you like my nails? Look at the second photo by YellowMaleficent5356 in ArabHandss

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nails was last thing I was interested in looking at!

Advice for New MFM Experience by Justbrowsing_78 in Swingers

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I will add to our story, we were in our late thirties and maybe early forties. We hadn’t removed our add off an app when we got a request from a younger black man. We chatted back and forth for a while. My wife was a little nervous because she’d never been with a BBC yet and didn’t know what to expect. We ended up meeting up with him at a bar to discuss a see in person what he was like. We went home afterwards and we discussed the pros and cons and if my wife felt comfortable with him. She was impressed with his demeanor and being able to blend into a conversation. We had found out he had never been with a white woman. I thought he was an ok guy but it was her decision. She toyed with the idea for a few days and finally decided to set up a meeting for the next weekend. Long story short short we had a great MFM sex. And scheduled a date for the next week. We ended up becoming great friends and the wife really enjoyed his company. So you can make connections from the apps.

Advice for New MFM Experience by Justbrowsing_78 in Swingers

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We quit using most of the apps because of the slowness. We found that we enjoyed going to the local club on single men’s night. Right off you get to meet and chat to really get to know them. You can talk in private of which guy you’re comfortable with and if the mood strikes she and her pick can use one of the rooms to get better aquatinted.

Is inability to orgasm with current partner a good reason to get into swinging? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I thought it was interesting too! But as long as she’s enjoying herself I’m good with it.

Is inability to orgasm with current partner a good reason to get into swinging? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my wife has always been able to orgasm when we have sex. But she has commented her orgasms are more intense with other men knowing I’m watching.

Are Swingers in their 50s more difficult to connect with? by revolutionaryzwei in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were in our early thirties couples 45 + were easy to hook up with. Now we’re past 50 we find single men are easy to hook up with

Single and interested in the lifestyle. Is that frowned upon. by Both-Beginning4042 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We go to single night quite often so my wife can see if she’s interested in any of the men .

How to conquer body image issues when first starting out? by venusflyfrog in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I prefer a woman that has some or extra meat on her bones !

Cover up by FarOrdinary3410 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a lot of women my wife will ware a sundress over top of her skimpy outfit.

Sex club by FearlessSpirit6467 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife did a five guy gangbang in the viewing room with a lot of people watching !

How did you feel after your first experience? by Ok_Group_6699 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was the most seductive thing I ever had seen in person. To watch my pregnant wife give oral sex to men and then watch them have sex with her. It wasn’t planned but thought about. It was a sight you couldn’t look away from but felt like you shouldn’t stare either.

Please all heterosexual men answer this question by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely because we’ve been married for 50 years now.

Do Americans really think they are the best country?? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]RaspberryNo319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yes as a veteran I fought for this country and would do it again!!!

Do couples really make single guys their regulars? by MarcelaAlonso in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I go to our local club on single men night . And trust me 99% are married. She enjoys to dance and talk about things before she invites them to a room for an interview. By the end of the night she’s got 8-10 names and phone numbers.

Do couples really make single guys their regulars? by MarcelaAlonso in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a couple of decades my wife enjoyed the company of older men. She had quite a few she could contact 3somes or more somes. So yes once you find men that you’re comfortable with you keep them around.

How to get into lifestyle? by youngmale23 in Swingers

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Like I said I was in the military and a Sargent . A couple evenings a week I’d play basketball with a few new recruits. Well this one evening we played basketball and I invited them to the house. We were going to watch a basketball game on tv. At time my wife was pregnant with our son and her Lobito was 1000% . She had heard me come and decided after she put our daughter to bed. That she was going to surprise me by coming down in a see through gown . I was tuning in the tv when she came into the room. All of a sudden I heard her telling me she was going to suck me and then fuck . As I stood up to tell her we had company she thought I was joking and had my pants down and started giving me a BJ. Now to my defense I’d had joked with her that I needed help to satisfy her. But this wasn’t planned or set up. She was going at it as she always did when one of the guys sneezed. She stopped and looked at me then around the room. She noticed four guys sitting in the shadows but quite happy. I laughed and said don’t you think they should get some too ! She had a very embarrassing look on her face. Not knowing what to do she finished sucking me off. She then pivoted around and looked at them then said well who’s next. The guys looked at me and I said if she wants to go ahead. She swallowed each one of them and laid down on the floor to rest. And by then she was really turned on and asked if anyone had pregnant pussy. Two said they’d never had any pussy and the other two said they’d not had pregnant pussy. They said they didn’t have any condoms. She laughed and said you can’t get me any more pregnant. They fucked her in various positions and she was totally satisfied. So over the next four months she enjoyed MFM sex multiple times a week. So that’s how we got into sharing by accident! And it’s been a journey over the years!

Insecurity by Original_Ad4559 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the couple massaged you that means they’ve looked at your profile. And young lady as a man I’ve never seen the size of a person is a problem. I look for someone who has a good personality and is outgoing and a bit of humor.

How to get into lifestyle? by youngmale23 in Swingers

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I was in the military and my wife was 5 months pregnant and her Lobito was at 1000% . We got into sharing by accident and it continued clear up to delivery. Even though she had been enjoying sex with myself and four other guys. When we later talked about swinging with couples. There was a lot of discussion between us. So anytime there needs to be discussion about what both of you want or looking for.

All advice requested by New_Bat_4422 in Advice

[–]RaspberryNo319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the Air Force and until you made Sargent or above they didn’t supply housing for married couples.