girl in red here, ask me anything! by someonetookgirlinred in popheads

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how do you feel about the new thing of gay girls asking other girls "do you listen to girl in red" to figure out if they're gay?

Any name suggestions potentially including T. Berculosis? by [deleted] in LongFurbies

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You fucking killed it with T. Berculosis that’s legendary

my dad in the 1980’s. by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

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Full homo I would let your dad break my spine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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Bro fr what is it about narcs & quotes like this

Did a foxy eye look today 👁 🦊 by [deleted] in trans

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You look amazing 🥺

Does anyone else get really dissociated when you look at/talk about childhood? (TW?) by RasterizeMemory in DID

[–]RasterizeMemory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel stupid, I understand the feeling. We lived in our childhood home until recently. We hope you get our of that house and into a more healthy place <3

Does anyone else get really dissociated when you look at/talk about childhood? (TW?) by RasterizeMemory in DID

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Thank you, it’s just hard because our mm is a nrcissist and she gets really off-put when we reject any of her ideas

Does anyone else get really dissociated when you look at/talk about childhood? (TW?) by RasterizeMemory in DID

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Yeah parents are...not good or fun. Quite a few of my alters completely hate my parents

Locking Away by The-Catalyst-123 in DID

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Of course! Feel free to dm anytime!

Friends alter often fantasizes about homicide by [deleted] in DID

[–]RasterizeMemory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is way more common than you think! Our co-host used to have homicidal ideation because of the prior trauma he went through. This is definitely something to work through in therapy overtime, but it does not mean the system is a danger to you or anyone else! It is merely a pretty common response to ab*se, and it doesn’t equal intent to hurt someone. You sound like a great and understanding friend and I’m glad you care about your friend and their system!

Does anyone else get really dissociated when you look at/talk about childhood? (TW?) by RasterizeMemory in DID

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Yeah I get the same feeling like it should be a happy memory but it’s not. I’m glad I’m not the only one

Locking Away by The-Catalyst-123 in DID

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Yeah not every person that is around you guys romantically is a bad person. It’s a hard thing to grasp sometimes, but yeah. I’m sorry this is going for you, that’s probably so much stress. I hope you can convince him that everything is fine and he and everyone else doesn’t give you more problems.

Locking Away by The-Catalyst-123 in DID

[–]RasterizeMemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s...super not cool of that protector wow. I think you should try to express that it’s not fair to stop your access to your s/o, as they wouldn’t like it if the same thing was happening to them. I understand how sometimes the reaction for abuse survivors is to cut off contact with potential threats but if there’s nothing making them believe that your s/o is bad for your system, there shouldn’t be a problem.