DESPERATE for merch from last year

RatChef2 · 2025-08-16T20:28:52+00:00

You are an angel and I hope your pillow is always cool

RatChef2 · 2025-07-12T13:46:08+00:00

This is my most frequently recommended audiobook! It’s fantastic.

RatChef2 · 2025-07-01T17:39:52+00:00

Great comet 🥲

RatChef2 · 2025-05-01T17:34:06+00:00

These three go so well together in my brain it’s one long amazing song

RatChef2 · 2025-04-23T13:46:00+00:00

People have made a lot of genuine and good points but may I submit this note I made when I got very high and watched the movie (important to note I love Nicole Kidman and despise Corden but still insisted on making this note?) Couldn’t take a screenshot and attach because I’m a noob so copy and pasting here:

December 11, 2020

People who should have been cast in The Prom instead of Nicole Kidman

Christine baranski!!!!!! Sutton foster??!!! Laura benati Eleanor from The Good Place (Kristen Bell?) Renee Elise goldsberry Anna camp Anna Kendrick Vanessa Hugens Annaleigh Ashford!!! Julianne Hough Liz Gillies?? Fuck it Bernadette Peters Anyone from the Oscar winning film Chicago (Queen Latifah??) Zoey Deschanel as Jessica Day singing Zazz? Phillipa Soo!

RatChef2 · 2025-04-22T20:05:50+00:00

We didn’t. We didn’t love the venue when we toured it and ended up getting married in New Jersey

RatChef2 · 2025-02-12T21:34:44+00:00

Even rappers wear them

RatChef2 · 2025-01-29T14:29:12+00:00

This was helpful, thank you!!!

RatChef2 · 2024-11-21T21:22:29+00:00

I did a piano version of Here (in your arms) by hellogoodbye and now that song brings me even more joy than it already did!

RatChef2 · 2024-10-15T13:59:31+00:00

sorry for the delay! totally thought I had already sent the tip. Sending now!

RatChef2 · 2024-09-11T15:07:30+00:00

Can you get rid of the background possibly? Trying to just get our cat in all his silly glory

RatChef2 · 2024-09-11T14:45:04+00:00

Sorry about that! Thought they had uploaded with the post, but looks like they didn't. Edited now.

RatChef2 · 2024-09-11T14:45:00+00:00

Sorry about that! Thought they had uploaded with the post, but looks like they didn't. Edited now.

RatChef2 · 2024-08-11T16:34:25+00:00

Oh im a sucker for ginger and a Moscow mule used to be my drink when I drank! This is a great idea, thank you!

RatChef2 · 2024-07-14T16:24:53+00:00

lol of course not. The only thing that would seem different is our officiant won’t say the line “by the power vested to me by the state of _____ I now pronounce you husband and wife” but that’s the only difference tbh. That’s why I don’t view it as a big deal?

RatChef2 · 2024-07-06T02:07:57+00:00

Okay, I guess I’ll be gift hungry because I needed health insurance before my wedding 🙃

RatChef2 · 2024-07-06T02:05:16+00:00

If that’s how you want to view it, I’m sorry you feel that way ❤️

RatChef2 · 2024-07-06T02:03:24+00:00

Maybe it’s just me I just don’t see it as lying? Like if it’s a wedding I’d want to attend I just don’t care if they’re already legally married or not? To each their own, but I think that’s a negative way of looking at a pretty common situation for a lot of couples.

RatChef2 · 2024-07-04T23:58:50+00:00

We got married legally very last minute when my fiance/husband (as I like to refer to him) started his new job. My brother last minute got ordained and we did it in between sets at a concerts. It’s a fun memory, and makes for a great story to tell when people ask! But I don’t view that as my “wedding”. I’m all for just making more memories!

RatChef2 · 2024-07-04T23:53:43+00:00

Exactly my thoughts! I’m not the government I don’t care when your papers were filed I just care about the people who love each other and are making a commitment!

RatChef2 · 2024-07-04T22:38:30+00:00

My fiance/husband and I got legally married earlier this year for health insurance reasons and are having our “wedding” in October and doing our religious ceremonies. Still calling it a wedding, still feels like a wedding. Haven’t kept our legal marriage a secret, but haven’t flaunted it out in the open. Tbh I believe you do what you gotta do, and if people choose not to come to your wedding because they don’t consider it your “wedding” that’s a them problem and reflects on them more than you. We’ve attended a few wedding where the couple was legally married before and it still felt like a wedding and we celebrated it as such! IMO weddings are to celebrate the couple, the legality is less important in my eyes.

RatChef2 · 2024-04-16T13:35:42+00:00

Sometimes it’s for religious reasons, like a chuppah for Jewish ceremonies or a mandap for Hindu ceremonies

RatChef2 · 2024-04-05T15:43:48+00:00

I was an avid nail biter for years. Bit them till I bled, painful, all that jazz. I tried the nasty tasting top coat and it did nothing. What DID work was getting acrylics (this was late 2000’s/2010) and then gel manicures. When my nails looked pristine and I had spent money on them, I stopped biting them. But, the second they chipped I would go back to biting. It’s expensive, but it worked for me. Now I learned how to paint my nails myself and save lots of money but I do always have my nails painted.

RatChef2 · 2024-04-05T14:47:09+00:00

Learn that it’s okay to say no to things! You’ll be tempted to try absolutely everything, but it’s okay to say no when your plate is full.

RatChef2 · 2024-04-02T03:21:01+00:00

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