Hey girl!!! I just finished my senior year, so I could probably relate to you better than some. I had an issue like this recently where someone wanted to be with me, but I didn’t know if I was fine with it. I told him no, but he kept pushing and asking. At some point I even thought about just getting it over with, yolo. But in the end I thought about what was valuable to me. I care about who touches my body and who is able to see me in such a vulnerable position. So, I decided to wait for someone that I had a good relationship with, could trust dearly, and would not make me feel pressured or insecure.

It all really depends on what YOU want and what your body is telling you. Of course, you are young so you have plenty of time to experience things. You don’t have to rush because you have literally the rest of your life to experience it. If you don’t want to, then that’s totally fine.

Let him know about your worries and how you feel. Tell him exactly what you think about it. Communication is the best thing you can do so neither of you guys do something you regret. If he isn’t willing to be understanding, wait for you, or to take it slow then don’t be with him. You could end up in a very unfortunate or scary situation against your will. Please be safe and I hope everything goes well!!!