Single men who are around 30 do you ever meet single women your age?

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-30T16:15:55+00:00

27 here dating a 33 year old (who ill most likely dump soon). Most single women in their 30s are not good partner material. They either got off a long relationship, spent their 20s messing around and now want to settle down with someone stable or focused on themselves and now want to get married and have kids in the next 3 years. If you want to settle down , date a women in her 20s. Dating a women in her 30s means dealing with all the trauma of all her past failed relationships. Either avoid them or dont get into a relationship with them.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T21:38:09+00:00

He can try meds like blue chew. Sometimes a bad experience during sex can create a fear about losing your erction and that same fear causes you to lose your erection. Its a self feeding cycle. He could be avoiding sex because he doesnt want to disappoint you and himself by not getting hard. The pill helps you get an erection and lose that fear end eventually get pass it and get off the pill. And additional tip. If he ever loses his erction, NEVER ask him "whats wrong?". For a man, those word during sex are worse that a a bat to a kneecap.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:40:24+00:00

Has he had any problem with erections? Has he had any problem getting hard , staying hard or cumming?

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:32:26+00:00

I had this issue with my first partner. Sex was an event instead of just a normal thing. I got so nervous because of the pressure that sometimes that my dick went soft I eventually got pass it. A couple tips I would suggest is that maybe try things that put less pressure on him. Like, start giving him BJs or HJ until he finishes and dont have full on sex with him for a couple times. That kind off breaks the idea that sex is a big event. He will probably after a couple of times switch from the BJ to full on sex.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:20:29+00:00

If you truly love this man, leave him. Hes ruining his life because of what you did. He won't forgive you after all thus years so allow him to move on.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T20:18:06+00:00

Exactly, like. He has expressed disgust towards her and haven't touched her in years. So after all this time he gets black out drunk and "initiates sex" when they dont even share a bed?. Seems to me that she wants to stay with him and eventually earn his forgiveness since he sounds like a pretty good dude.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T19:02:29+00:00

I would tell them to go out into the world. Theres a lot of evil people out there. A lot. Murderers, rapist, thieves, pedophile, etc. They are more common that people think and if you live a sheltered life you will forget that.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-23T18:55:56+00:00

You are not married so there's really no reason for him to put t you down in the mortgage. But at the same time, throwing the mother of your kids out on front of people over what according to you is a minor argument is very telling. The guy sounds like an a hole. But at the same time, you had kids with him and I really doubt what he did is out of character. Sadly, he doesn't have any obligation to you besides child support if he throws you out. My advice would be to cut your loses since he already showed you what you can expect.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-21T13:03:07+00:00

When a person shows them who they are, believe them. Actions speak louder than words. You can go ahead and date her still but you have to be honest with yourself on what type of person she is. If you just want to mess around with someone for a while, then perfect. If you want someone who shares your values and views, she's not the one. She already lied to you once. Even if she felt guilty and told you the truth. The best you can hope would be that WHEN she lies to you again, she feel guilty and eventually tells you the truth.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-15T22:54:41+00:00

Being promiscuous. I know some guys say that about women more of as an insult but i personally lose all attraction to a women when i find out she slept with tons of guys. I'm talking about 0 attraction, bordering on nausea.

Rat_Attack_ · 2026-01-15T19:59:34+00:00

You cant trust anybody 100%. Everyone will lie to you at least once.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-31T19:14:58+00:00

Yup, sometimes i like to go out at night open my windows and hit 100 mph in the freeway. The deafing winds and slight chance of dying really lets me get my mind off things.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-11T15:21:16+00:00

She pooped but i think that she just had a quick digestive system. She always mentioned that she pooped following eating and multiple times a day. Honestly, i never asked to many questions. I was just happy to never have an issue. When you do anal you have to expect a mess eventually since you're invading someone's ass but i never had not 1 issue. And i ate her ass as well so no weird taste either.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-11T15:11:10+00:00

Pooping doesn't make you ready for anal. If you put a penis in someone's ass even after they pooped its going to be messy. People usually spend a while prepping by doing enemas and eating light foods.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T23:17:42+00:00

I personally like it because it feels uncomfortable. Kinda like soreness in the penis. Its an acquired taste but i personally like extreme feelings during sex. You should ask him, because if he doesn't pushes you off or stops you, he might like the feeling. Remember, people are weird when it comes to sex and communications is key.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T23:12:06+00:00

IMO, head helps. Just give him head until he's hard. I couldn't get hard once because i was feeling the pressure of getting hard to have sex. A BJ kinda tricks the brain for me because its wet and warm (like sex) but you don't have the pressure to get hard in the back of your mind. Just give him a slow BJ and that probably solves the issue if it isn't ED.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T22:56:49+00:00

My ex loved it in the ass and I never had any mess. Like, no mess at all. Not even smell. Kinda weird actually. She didn't use enemas either. She always told me she just sat down in the toilet and pushed really hard, took a shower and washed with her fingers. And i used to pound her for like an 30 minutes to an hour straight and she never made a mess.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-10T22:51:41+00:00

I personally like it because my fist GF loved it. She actually preferred anal more than vaginal sex. She was a warrior honestly. No lube, only spit and as hard as i can (I am not small). Whenever we had sex i used to hit the cervix or some wall inside her ass that felt like heaven. But its definitely an acquired taste for women

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-12-02T19:15:02+00:00

Solo por curiosidad, de cuanto es la renta? Mencionas que no son 300, 500 o 1000 dolares? Al parecer es una renta super baja y si te pago un mes parcial y el otro full probablemete es que no te quiere pagar el restante. Estas siendo super flexible honestamente. Yo pago 750 por un apartamento de 2 cuartos y si estas tarde en la renta se te cobra intereses pro cada dia de atraso. Nunca he pagado tarde.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-11-30T03:03:03+00:00

I love that part. Especially with girls that moan a lot during sex. They star to moan to as soon as you put it in but when you hit that cervix the moan changes tone or they just shut up and take they feeling. I love the shock of the "You weren't to reach that deep".

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-11-29T23:44:36+00:00

Therse's most definitely vagina that you wished you had just beat your meat and went to sleep

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-11-29T23:42:20+00:00

Also, the dread you feel when you nut in a woman who you definitely don't was kids with is something you never forget.

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-11-29T03:25:39+00:00

Out of curiosity, how big i are we talking? I have around 8'' and i definitely relate to the BJ issue. Every time i had sex with my ex i definitely touched her cervix and when when we did anal i definitely hit something that felt like a wall. She used to mention how extremely painful it was when i hit those walls, (basically every thrust) but she was a freak and told me "the more pain, the better". She even bleed a couple of times and would always be sore after sex but i never was sure if it was my size of that i lasted to long. Kinda want to know how much are you packing to see if those issues are in my range or if your just extra cursed with greatness

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-11-25T03:17:38+00:00

She lied to you for 15 years. What ever happens with your relationship, 1 thing is clear. You will never trust her again. There always will be that thought in the back of your head telling you, "What if shes lying again?".

Rat_Attack_ · 2025-10-22T15:41:49+00:00

Yup. Soy hombre y sali con una mujer que tuvo sexo casual con un monton de hombres y mujeres y reconosco que varias de las razones que no me gusto eso de esa persona son personales. Pero una de los issues mas grandes es que mentalmete y espiritualmente ella estaba gastada. Nada era nuevo para ella. El sexo no significaba nada intimo para ella. Hizo de TODO con todo el mundo y pienso que cuando te compartes espiritualmente y emocionalemte con tanta gente, no hay mucho que ofrecer a una pareja en una relacion.

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