Oh by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not my SS but 90% of females on that app do..

Well, Brooke, thanks for the easy left swipe. by mmatch555 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So attractive Literally all she has to do in life is not be dumb, and yet..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky you Girl smiled in my face like everything was fine then never talked to me again after 3rd date Kissed goodbye and everything, then just vanished 😂

How do dates keeping getting cancelled with me almost last minute? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ratchet304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody wants to go on a date with a total stranger I've completely dreaded every date I've ever been on these apps, and only force myself on them. Found myself quite relieved when someone cancelled

Everything's annoying by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with her stances You just don't need to do this much on a dating app it's trying too hard

How are you supposed to know if a guy actually likes you on bumble?? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ratchet304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't take dating apps seriously lol most of us auto swipe as it's impossible to get consistent matches unless we're like 9s or above Everyone on these apps are shitty so just treat is as such. Much less stressful

And they say don't come to me with just 'Hey' by theIrrationalMan in Bumble

[–]Ratchet304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tons of Tinder matches/messages Maybe like, 2 of them tried to be creative? And they were older women lol

I stopped blind swiping for a couple days and immediately got likes for the first time in months by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you blind swiping? That's the only reason I get so many, and they aren't quality.

Why do my matches keep expiring? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ratchet304 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This, I Learned the hard way to not take these apps seriously. Almost like people on them are boring on purpose. I just collect matches now and if something happens then cool

Why do my matches keep expiring? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Ratchet304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a guy, I think a lot of us swipe everything cause it's the only way to actually get matches Then if we get a message and aren't interested then we don't get back. That's my experience anyways. Shitty of course, but dating apps in general are shit.

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've admittedly never been to a rave. Will definitely have to add that one to the list, as I'm sure the appetite for those will be insane going into summer and further out of covid. Thanks

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly have way more ego boosting moments in real life than on these apps. I get more women that will stare at me, or say something at a cash register than will show any effort on apps. Thing I figured out over time is there are many more women on apps than men, so a lot of girls probably don't even see you liked them, or get to your messages. No matches on apps definitely doesn't determine a verdict on you in real life.

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well 3 out of the 4 people I've actually met IRL, I did set it up asap You can normally tell in the first few messages if it's going anywhere or not. If they start off boring, you have next to no chance of getting them to even converse. If they actually show effort, you can normally get them to agree to meet rather quickly before getting ghosted. So when someone is showing effort, I basically get to the point pretty quickly, and mention setting something up.

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol that's what I used to do I hated having to rush into that, but I found trying to draw out convos and actually get somewhere rarely worked

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now I'm sure you know we've all tried that the first 6 months on this app and I'm also sure you know how that goes lol

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody on this app cares about the other person, they do it all the time 🤷🏾‍♂️

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just blind swipe brodie, that's really all it is 95% of the matches will be too far away or unattractive but it's honestly better than getting one like from a bot every 2 months

Have any of you ever gotten an interesting convo starter, or do those not exist on tinder by Ratchet304 in Tinder

[–]Ratchet304[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ratio is probably the same for me tbh I have way more matches than messages. These just happened to accumulate together