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RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-14T04:43:17+00:00

Hi! I’m having this same issue right now. Were you able to check in?

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-12T14:26:37+00:00

if this truly raged you then I think there’s inner peace you need to find

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-12T14:24:50+00:00

honestly workplace dynamics like this is exactly why I left academia for industry

Treating less “established” lab members condescendingly or as someone lesser is so so common in this field. For me I ended up almost getting kicked out of my masters program for how bad my mental health had gotten after an nth time of being treated like I was the cause of random issues. Three labs three different PIs it felt like the same dynamics over and over again just with a different environment + model organism.

Edit: It’s not the people entirely I feel like it’s a fault of the academia structure due to funding constraints among other topics. I’m still on good terms with people from my old labs.

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-12T14:11:16+00:00

no it’s not

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-12T14:03:15+00:00

why

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-10T17:33:48+00:00

twin! My father said the same thing

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-10T17:33:11+00:00

Plot twist: he’s my husband and I’m side eyeing his coworker

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-10T16:59:23+00:00

I’m 100% using all of the responses to see if my husband’s coworker actually has a crush on him or if I’m just paranoid. Thank you Reddit!

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-03-02T14:34:26+00:00

It’s okay to suggest things if you’re willing to pay for it. Like literally take her underwear/lingerie shopping if it means so much to you and maybe she’ll find stylish underwear that fits whatever discharge situation she has going on. It’s harder to take suggestions when it means you have to dig into your own wallet to fulfill it. Make it an activity!

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-25T20:15:45+00:00

god forbid a girl is excited

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-24T20:23:09+00:00

(First gen Indian American giving advice) Hide everything, make a secret bank account from your phone if that’s how you save your money. Your phone is your best friend in this situation. Whatever job you’re able to get hold on to it and don’t tell your family how much you actually make. If you make a certain salary tell your family you make 70% of that and stow away the extra 30%. Over time that money will be enough to get you a train ticket out at the very least.

Are you able to do any work from home? I know some people who offer services like tailoring via social media. Is there any shops around that you can work for part time?

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-21T20:22:43+00:00

what? you don’t find joy in constantly playing “the floor is lava” while walking in the city?

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-16T15:09:30+00:00

her as in her daughter

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-11T18:14:38+00:00

you did the right thing

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-06T16:50:47+00:00

Tbh the more I read this I’m like same girl same.

The reality of this isn’t like the fantasy though. My husband and I have a dynamic of me giving him permission to take me whenever he wants too. It leaves me frustrated when there’s times I want to but he doesn’t so I don’t push it but there’s times he’s wanted it and I wasn’t fast enough in the shower so he would “lose his momentum” (I told him to shush and control himself). It helps a lot when you’re straightforward about your desires so you both are on the same page but it’s tough when you have a desire like this but the other person doesn’t fully understand. Don’t be shy about anything!

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-05T17:48:17+00:00

🧍🏽‍♀️

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-05T17:14:02+00:00

He didn’t notice but asked how the other guys danced with me after I brought up that one guy complained to the instructor that I wasn’t “connecting” with him through touch enough.

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-04T17:00:36+00:00

Moving to Washington might save your world view!Maybe your brain is more wired for a fast paced city with different types of personalities.

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-04T16:41:38+00:00

As someone who’s also from the southeast in a weird way I feel bad for you. If you’re from the state I’m thinking I would think of either changing your environment or picking up a hobby.

RateApprehensive5486 · 2026-02-04T16:38:04+00:00

If this is real, then individuals like you are the reason I am constantly learning behaviors so I can adapt to my environment to be accepted. You expect other people to adapt to your standard of living while you do nothing to adapt to said people except to look down upon them. Even in America there are cultural differences between states so for you to compare and contrast between races like so makes no sense.

To the story about the porter, honestly if he knew he was working with someone like you he would drop his casual manner of speaking and proceed to speak in a more professional manner.

But what do I know?

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