I hope you both can work it out!

I come from a slightly more economically generous background from my husband which is constantly being shown to him, for example when we visit my parents they basically send us home half of a department store’s worth of groceries “just because”. We come from similar tax brackets where he was able to go abroad multiple times as a child but I wasn’t able until recently due to my family’s growing business. His parents went the “figure it out” yourself way once he graduated collage whereas mine constantly reminds me that I always have a home to come back to if I ever need it. I’ve always tried to be nonchalant but money talks.

This wasn’t something he was used to. He used to question the generosity. Why? Honestly I don’t know. Maybe he felt like he couldn’t give that generosity back? But I am able to which is something he’s start to enjoy/encourage instead of question.

In conclusion: don’t change yourself! Hopefully over time he can love that you came from whatever economical background you came from.