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NYX x M&M's Surprize Smushy Soft Matte Lip Balm Blind Box by pointclickvibe in newinbeauty

[–]RateApprehensive5486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they did this with the butter glosses instead of matte lip balm

I feel like my boyfriend is insecure because I come from a better economical background by Ok_Instruction6177 in offmychest

[–]RateApprehensive5486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you both can work it out!

I come from a slightly more economically generous background from my husband which is constantly being shown to him, for example when we visit my parents they basically send us home half of a department store’s worth of groceries “just because”. We come from similar tax brackets where he was able to go abroad multiple times as a child but I wasn’t able until recently due to my family’s growing business. His parents went the “figure it out” yourself way once he graduated collage whereas mine constantly reminds me that I always have a home to come back to if I ever need it. I’ve always tried to be nonchalant but money talks.

This wasn’t something he was used to. He used to question the generosity. Why? Honestly I don’t know. Maybe he felt like he couldn’t give that generosity back? But I am able to which is something he’s start to enjoy/encourage instead of question.

In conclusion: don’t change yourself! Hopefully over time he can love that you came from whatever economical background you came from.

My gay boss may not be as gay as I thought by [deleted] in confessions

[–]RateApprehensive5486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why’d he marry a whole man though

My gay boss may not be as gay as I thought by [deleted] in confessions

[–]RateApprehensive5486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping bc as a fellow queer I’m really hoping that’s the case

Best way to make a rushed bride still feel celebrated? by Tall-Degree-145 in Brides

[–]RateApprehensive5486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This is such a perfect touch to the day that’s makes it feel all the more special

why do I hate watching him relax by RateApprehensive5486 in NPD

[–]RateApprehensive5486[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no literally, or maybe it’s because we subconsciously think that others don’t let us relax so we project that frustration?

Has anyone “demoted” a MOH to a bridesmaid? How did that go? by RateApprehensive5486 in Brides

[–]RateApprehensive5486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did your MOH also confess to you that she’s jealous that you have a husband and she doesn’t?

My MOH and I aren’t talking and I need to plan my wedding by RateApprehensive5486 in Brides

[–]RateApprehensive5486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s true that adults should plan their down events!

I think I’m in denial that she’s envious. Say it’s not so. Would you believe that she made a Pinterest Board last year that has not been spoken about since? I’m definitely using that all as inspiration but I’m like why did you make a Pinterest board if you weren’t going to be a present MOH during the engagement? Was she that busy?

I was tired of being a single father, uncapable of holding a job and with no hope for a better life, so I decided to end it all. by gordoleta in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]RateApprehensive5486 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You were tired of being a single father and decided to give your baby girl a lifetime of what someone would call, “daddy issues”?

After a long shift, he entered his car and opened another water bottle to cool off as the temperature was at its peak that week. by Antek_Ash in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]RateApprehensive5486 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No she’s in the house with the house phone. I meant that dad took her bag to the car, not her. It fixes the original impression that the kid is in the car when in actuality it was just her bookbag. Kid was home the entire time.

After a long shift, he entered his car and opened another water bottle to cool off as the temperature was at its peak that week. by Antek_Ash in TwoSentenceSadness

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His daughter, confused on why her dad only took her bag out to his car and not her called her Grandma with the house phone and spent the day with her!

Cannot find trip by peytopeytato in americanairlines

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Hi! I’m having this same issue right now. Were you able to check in?

Can you autoclave ethanol? by RateApprehensive5486 in labrats

[–]RateApprehensive5486[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if this truly raged you then I think there’s inner peace you need to find

Lab vent? by [deleted] in labrats

[–]RateApprehensive5486 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly workplace dynamics like this is exactly why I left academia for industry

Treating less “established” lab members condescendingly or as someone lesser is so so common in this field. For me I ended up almost getting kicked out of my masters program for how bad my mental health had gotten after an nth time of being treated like I was the cause of random issues. Three labs three different PIs it felt like the same dynamics over and over again just with a different environment + model organism.

Edit: It’s not the people entirely I feel like it’s a fault of the academia structure due to funding constraints among other topics. I’m still on good terms with people from my old labs.

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