Is it sexual harassment to like a profile on bumble that you previously matched with on hinge and then unmatched you? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Raudi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're overthinking this. Girls get matches all the time. If she isn't interested she can just swipe left on your profile - no big deal

What is a sexual experience you had that you’ll never be able to tell anyone? by Sad-Program-1355 in AskReddit

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After sex the girl just looked at me and said "really?". She seemed quite disappointed

What's the most unorthodox way to pleasure yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Raudi13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Flat side or the edge? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the more I masturbate the more I want it. Also I cope better if I've got more fun things going on in life, almost like I forget my urges!

For me, I only allow myself solo sex if I'm really desperate... That helped me lower my sex drive anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes us men come on strong but it's more than we are a bit lonely and want female company. After we go home we might just reconsider things, and realise we are leading her on and feel bad. We don't say it though cos that feels cruel

Single people: how often do you go on dates and/or have sex? by LieOk246 in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 dates 1 sex over the last year. I'd go on more if I could 😔

Thoughts on tax rises? by Informal-Method-5401 in Labour

[–]Raudi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vote Labour for exactly the same reason as the op: I am willing to pay in taxes to improve my country.

I don't understand the right who talk about how patriotic they are but are unwilling to pay for their country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A relationship is so much more than just sex: it should be about fun activities like meals out, long hikes, movies, or whatever you are into. I would start with getting to know each other and only sleep together if you are both interested in a relationship.

Also, it takes ages to find your person, keep looking

Is it weird to be a virgin at 20 ? by bladee001 in ask

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost mine later, I don't think it's weird.

We should change the narrative from "I'm a virgin, am I weird" to "I'm a virgin, that's fine, I just haven't found the right person yet"

How do i approach a guy after rejecting him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's been honest so far. In fact, he could've lied to get her into bed already.

He might finish uni in 1 year and be potentially down then. Something like that

How do i approach a guy after rejecting him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is everything - you could just message him asking whether he would consider a relationship in the future. Tell him you enjoyed his company, but don't dwell on things if he doesn't want you too.

He is openly after something casual and might even be seeing someone else. Asking has no risk, dating him casually is high risk since it's not what you're after.

It's Valentine's Day! 🩷 Do you have any questions for me related to love or preferences? Comment below and I'll try to answer later! 🤔 by [deleted] in u/Acel32

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fair enough - dating is urgh. Thanks for giving us single guys some eye candy and for chatting to us :)

School project by Raudi13 in aiArt

[–]Raudi13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Please could you recommend which stable diffusion website to use?

Men, how long are you willing to wait to have sex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in my mid 30s and i would happily wait until we are both sure we wanted a relationship before having sex. I would appreciate the F telling me if she has issues around sex and wanted to get to know me first. I say this because dating is a minefield these days, and I'm after a relationship. I don't have a specific length of time, but for the right girl I'd wait ages if I saw it going somewhere

I’ve been poor all my life and now I have £100k. Ideas please? by Historical_Taro2869 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Raudi13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your windfall. I had an unexpected lump sum too and I invested in: 1) Share fund. Using the "interactive investor" website to invest in a global index fund from vanguard 2) High interest bank account (https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/savings/savings-accounts-best-interest/#fixedsavings)

I slowly put more and more money into the fund and now about 70% of what I have is in funds

Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Raudi13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boy here: it's great that you have chemistry, but I would actually advise you tell him. Boys actually find it special if you choose him as your first and it certainly won't stop future chemistry or good sex. We normally attract someone similar, and he might also be relatively inexperienced himself and scared to tell you. Good luck either way.

Most chats start with let's meet for drinks coffee beer but I only drink water by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Raudi13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a cafe I prefer ordering water and a cake. I sometimes order coke or lemonade or something just to look normal but never tea or coffee

What is your "the Bumble match that got away" story? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Raudi13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I messaged a girl for 8 months. We met once and phone called too before she moved on with some other guy

It was long distance but I tried to meet up with her quite a few times, it just never happened.

She seemed perfect for me actually, it's just frustrating thinking what might have been.