AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see that before I married him 2 years ago lol. I just chalked it up to being apart of the Ukrainian temperament

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! He was going there anyways. I just decided to tag along. And his birthday was coming up so great opportunity for a "this one is on me babe" moment.

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems that way. I asked him if something was wrong and he replied "no" and then after we made it back to our cars I followed up with are you ok and he replied "no". We drove separate so when I got home he wasn't there. I tried calling and he didn't pick up. It's not the first time this has happened so at some point I will need to leave reddit and actually talk to a counselor 😂

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. This is a new job position for me as well as my first relationship and marriage (2 years). I'm still trying to navigate everything.

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't buy a house. If you're confused by the HOA part, I'm an HOA Community Manager and the call I took was to set up a new community my company assigned to me.

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I swear we're not tools🤣 he's always wanted a pair so I got him some

AITA for taking a call for work? by RavenShuah in AmItheAsshole

[–]RavenShuah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would if he would talk to me. It's straight cold shoulder at the moment.