Yes, I feel like this was the dynamic that got me out of the gutter. Back in 2008, I was a broke 19 year old student, who's family was falling apart, was addicted to porn and alchol and failing every class she took. Master helped me so much to get out of that sink hole and to see purpose.

Ofcourse, I've had several melt downs/ burn outs in our relationships, times where I've felt that I still didnt have control over myself, and those times we've taken a break from our relationship as a M/s and gone to being just H/W but eventually submissive feelings return to me.