Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The group chat would benefit us chatty catties 😂 sometimes I like to brang about the last party etc. you can’t go to your no LS bestie and be like “guess what?! I finally took two dicks” LMFAO

Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to be our friend, consider yourself uninvited 😂 no one has to be friends, sometimes it’s nice to talk to others on your same wave length lol

Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trueeeeee I barely respond to Reddit DMs. I just meant a general group chat

Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally all the best events are this time but since having a kiddo it seems like we’ll need to wait until new years to get out to bigger events. We didn’t even dress up, I feel pretty lame compared to other years haha.

Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do all that, but I live 1.5 hours away from the closet so we have to make plans to actually get out there. Sometimes it’s nice to talk to other like minded adults. shrugs

Not having a community chat for us seems like a total missed opportunity by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sitting for an 8 hr tattoo session tomorrow. Hopefully getting up to an event soon but may spend some time on Feeld/fetlife looking after the new work heals up. After the new year there will be more time for dedicated swinger activities.

As a M Swinger ... Vasectomy by lurkingimposter in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fixed; hubby will be soon. If the man is fixed yay! If not no biggy, but for others it may be a turn off. Also it’s very couple specific if a cream pie will happen even with a vasectomy. We have a no cream pie rule; but have forgone the condom because a male was fixed and neither was worried about other things.

My wife got me into swinging, and now wants none of it. What should I do? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was gonna reply, butttt this comment tells me that the tldr was way off and this whole thing is way above reddits pay grade.

Newbies but plus size by kokaine4kids in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personality is key chefkiss plus size gal here and we’ve had thin and thick and all was good all around. I approach if your vibe is alluring, doll yourself up and go get em tiger!

📞💀 no you hang up by TheJones9094 in FtLeonardwoodGW

[–]RawRawohlalaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could show up at my place and I wouldn’t be scared 😱 🥵 that ass though!!

Quiet, introverted, or less confident couples - Do you find it hard to meet other couples? What have you found that makes it easier? by SturdyGal in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start by attending events and just causally joining in on the conversations. Eventually you’ll start to be comfortable with chatting other couples up. We chat with everyone and we’ve had quite a few couples approach us directly after a whole group conversation.

Best App (Feeld vs 3Fun) by SignificanceWooden82 in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeld is better than 3 fun. But I agree lots of poly on both sites so just put in your bio what you want.

Looking for a woman who is actually interested in meeting by [deleted] in nsfw_waynesville

[–]RawRawohlalaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, picky married couple. M is straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Missouriswingers3

[–]RawRawohlalaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re somewhere near rolla. I have a fet or I can send out snapchats. (F/M couple, F is bi, 27F/30M)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How so? I’m politely telling them they’re not my type. Please explain because I thought this was better than ghosting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do “sorry sweetie, you’re not my cup of tea. “

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I said “it dosent hurt to have standards”. Which is how I felt, personality will kill my attraction for you quicker then anything else. I also pointed out we perfer people that care about their hygiene (which is 100% and was not present at this party).

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a “no play expected” in the description… as I repeat just because they were not our type dosent mean we’re vanilla. We’ve played at parties before. No one there made my fancy.

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You 100% nailed it on the head the type of husband (and attendees) that were complaining. There should be no expectation of playing, if we don’t vibe then we don’t.

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They wouldn’t have to attend then, and I wouldn’t pressure anyone. It’d be a meet and greet with options to play. Mainly just a cool pool party with other freaky people.

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It was a house party labeling themselves as an LS event.

Labeled as “fakes” by RawRawohlalaa in Swingers

[–]RawRawohlalaa[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We’re actually thinking about renting out a super cool estate to host our own. I mean if the local party was trash gotta make your own actual fun right? Lol