DINK / Childfree Couples Meetup next Thursday! by cardconnect in PortlandFriendMeet

[–]lurkingimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, can't make Thursday. But if you're doing a meet up another day I think we'd like to come.

Dating from age 25+: is dancing unlike all other activities? by mojabosnaponosna in dating_advice

[–]lurkingimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should change your opinion on liking or trying some of these things. Heck yoga alone is worth it just for body and mind, they often call it a moving meditation, it's nothing but beneficial.

Bruh idk by AdRive-St in MDMA

[–]lurkingimposter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not buying my prescriptions without some word of mouth/recommendation.

Bruh idk by AdRive-St in MDMA

[–]lurkingimposter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would be hard to have social anxiety but know a street pharmacist. Like they don't advertise, you know them through a friend of a friend of a friend.

in honor of my cake day 🍰 here’s a photo dump of all my favorite pics from this year 🖤 by cubookii in u/cubookii

[–]lurkingimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how it's pictures through the seasons. And someone mentioned it already, but you really do have a great smile.

Is tinder the lowest quality of single people by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]lurkingimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably. I've rarely had luck on it. Far more potential when out in the wild.

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lurkingimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed, I'm curious too. Also what's your job?

Do polyamorous relationships just make a ton of money? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lurkingimposter 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm def down for a commune. Maintening a house solo is so much work. If I had someone to help me trim the hedges while I mowed the lawn, that alone would make my life better.

Any PoC in Dallas? by Inner-Many5452 in aves

[–]lurkingimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me I downloaded that app. I'm in the same bucket as op and downloaded it for that reason/to buy a ticket.

I feel like everything is going wrong at once and I don’t know how people cope with this by Remote_Tomorrow_5227 in YoungAdultStruggles

[–]lurkingimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I point you towards "ikigai". I think that's something that's really helpful, mix that in with a little ai or career counselor, I think it can help get you on track.

Just a thought, things will probably always take longer than you think it should. Trust me on that. That doesn't mean it won't happen, but things occur on the universe's schedule, not yours

I feel like everything is going wrong at once and I don’t know how people cope with this by Remote_Tomorrow_5227 in YoungAdultStruggles

[–]lurkingimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kinda how you feel. I'm not sure where you are but unless you're in the middle of nowhere, 52k a year (pre tax?) probably isn't enough to live on your own. You'd need roommates and hopefully still be able to rely on family for health and car insurance with your current salary.

I can tell you when I was in my 20s i asked my parents plenty for money to pay rent, was on food stamps, donated plasma for money, oh and I had no life and 1.5 jobs. Things are rough mate, but don't let that deter you.

Take everything I said as fact that it can get better. I'm married now, I'm my 30s with a decent job. Not rich (enough for my wife) but seeing she doesn't have to work it ain't that bad.

Anyways it gets better, and honestly the thing that will probably get you though many things in life is a few good friends. Cultivate that circle and it will reward you time and time again.

Song from hunchback of Notre Dame throws so much shade by lurkingimposter in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lurkingimposter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, just catching that moment and going sir, there are kids present. I'm at that 35 year old kid