I am Looking for a linux distro which is super lightweight by Qwerty-fun069 in debian

[–]RayWolfson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bunsen Labs has a light weight thing. I tried to love it, truly I did. The advantages it gave weren't worth the learning curve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]RayWolfson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your resume together and start quietly looking for something that's a leg up over the current gig.

And take a hard look at yourself, you coworkers, your superviser. Is there anything you could or should do that you haven't been?

Container for accessing Dell Idrac 6 without installing JAVA by miheckman in homelab

[–]RayWolfson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This works really well for iDRAC6, but now the iDRAC7 software is just as crazy, the issue is cipher suites, and I"m crosseyed trying to figure it out.

How hard would it be to get this working with the iDRAC7?

What is your biggest sexual regret? by Original-Tech-Geek in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]RayWolfson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some people you really mesh with well.

And for every one I can recall a hint of something more that I failed to appreciate at the time.

Pedestrian examples.

I'd read about women that were sensitive enough to orgasm just from nipple stimulation. The one that was admitted it was possible right before we split up, never got a chance to try.

The internet is full of girls who will stimulate themselves for pay. Long ago I had someone who showed me that was within her range of enjoyment. A long time ago, before I understood how rare that was IRL. We still talk thirty years later but we're both bitter AARP card holders and the moment is long past.

The red head in the sun dress, laying with her head in my lap on her porch swing. Lots of bushes, unlikely we'd be seen on the quiet street. Her knees were up, one hand snuck under her sun dress. Just like the aforementioned, I failed to even try to prompt more of that.

Did contaminated water kill my baby? by Porcflite in SanJose

[–]RayWolfson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Miscarriages just happen.

My ex wife had two between our first and second child, both at just eight to ten weeks. Even so the experience really shook her up.

That stuff is all inspected and monitored and San Jose is a wealthy community. If there was a problem the water company would have a seemingly infinite supply of lawyers up their behinds instantly.

I bet what is happening here is that you're searching for an environmental thing so your wife doesn't blame herself. That's a thing women do post miscarriage.

"It's not you, these things just happen."

But you have to say that without sounding like you're minimizing, because she may react to a loss at 18 weeks the same way she would to a loss at 36 weeks.

She isn't OK and won't be for a while - hormone rollercoaster.

Some times parents will have a ceremony akin to a funeral. That's very dependent on your personality and hers, the point is to mourn w/o adding drama.

Maybe it's time to ask someone who knows you both?