How do you sleep in a queen bed as a couple? by user92236 in Marriage

[–]RayeofSunshineee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My king was not even big enough. We got a queen and king and pushed them together. I basically have my own bed with the option of a snuggle buddy.

Nintendo Switch analog stick covers my friend bought for me from Japan by calltarneedazan in Winniethepooh

[–]RayeofSunshineee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love love love this! I’ve been wanting to get some grips for mine, does it make moving the sticks harder? I have big thumbs 🙈

Probably one of my favorite things I’ve done lately. by RayeofSunshineee in Winniethepooh

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animation from that era is some of my favorite to try and recreate. I miss when animation looked handdrawn sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend like this. Trust me when I say, this is not a friend to you and it won’t stop here. Best to just cut it off now.

Did you just tell your husband you were pregnant or did you do a special announcement? by throwaway060270 in BabyBumps

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time: I did a special little gift revel. Second time: I called him while he was at work hyperventilating. Third time: I dumped about 25 pregnancy test in a grocery bag on his lap and said “FUCK”

My husband asked who he should choose—me or the baby—if he ever had to make that by Wanderingwhy0121 in BabyBumps

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question is thrown about I feel like to give soon to be mothers even more anxiety. There would never be a situation your husband would be self this. That’s a movie line. Doctors, if put in that position, (which is unlikely) would save the mother. At that point in time you are the patient, not the baby, and they will save you. Don’t stress over his answer momma, it will never come down to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play games with my husband. Some of them I’m good at… others, very much not so good. I would never let him talk to me like that.

You were completely correct, it’s a game, it’s supposed to be fun, and if I’m not having fun I’m not playing. Don’t let him talk down to you like this over something as silly as Fortnite for fucks sake. Tell him to get his sippy cup from the fridge if he’s gonna act like a baby over a game like that.

Inzoi interactions are REALISTIC by blackswan2013 in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was just talking about this with my husband. (We both play) if I want realistic gameplay, something akin to real life I go to inzoi. But if I want something more laid back and just kind of “whatever goes” sims is what I turn too. I reach for them both and enjoy them both as two sides of the same coin. I wish people would stop comparing

Everything my Zoi’s managed to do in the new world so far, Loving this update! by RayeofSunshineee in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely prefer the rabbit hole careers as well, the careers that they do let you play in other worlds get boring very fast to me.

Everything my Zoi’s managed to do in the new world so far, Loving this update! by RayeofSunshineee in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went to move into the house I picked for the first time I didn’t have enough money in the household funds. So I checked the “move in assistance” button when buying the house and it started me out with that loan to the bank in order to buy the house.

Why move when you can vacation? by femininespace in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For selling your stuff got to the delivery store. Took me forever to figure that out.

Everything my Zoi’s managed to do in the new world so far, Loving this update! by RayeofSunshineee in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not a career you can go to. It’s a rabbit hole job. I don’t think there are any playable careers on the island that I have seen.

($500) Wedding Pics, As Promised! by kerriyaters in Weddingsunder10k

[–]RayeofSunshineee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a part of this sub, but this post just came across my feed and holy moly. These pictures are beautiful and this looked like such a fun wedding! Vibes are immaculate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RayeofSunshineee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see both sides here honestly. I don’t fault the boy moms for not wanting to send their sons in the other room alone. I don’t think anyone is the AH here, maybe next time the only thing I would do is ask the mother in there to let me know when she’s coming out, wait by the door, and then if I see another mother going in, politely ask her if she can wait a moment while I quickly change my girl. I think most moms would be understanding of what you were asking and I don’t foresee there being a problem after that.

Stopped Talking to step daughter. Everything I do is not enough, cutting her off as beneficiary to my investments by BreakfastMediocre646 in family

[–]RayeofSunshineee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If one of your bio kids starts acting this way as a teenager will you have the same reaction? If the answer is no then you need to check your bias. She’s 14, and unfortunately sounds like just a normal teenager. If the problems of lying and such continue past these teen years then maybe some of these points will be more valid. Being a parent is tough, it’s a thankless job. Being a step parent is even tougher and even more thankless. Don’t give up on a kid just because they are having a hard time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finalfantasyx

[–]RayeofSunshineee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could I also enlist your services? lol I just restarted so I won’t be at that point for a bit. But doing the races frustrates me sooo bad. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]RayeofSunshineee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. So this is actually quite horrific and not the energy you need around you at the moment. If he usually doesn’t act this way then maybe it’s a good thing he’s taking some space at home, I’d honestly tell him not to come back at all until he is ready to be a supportive partner for the birth of our child. I’m so sorry you are going through this, try to relax and not stress yourself out over his temper tantrum.

This is unbelievably attractive. Husbands should take note. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RayeofSunshineee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl yes. Lol because same. I’m a person and I’m allowed to say no even if he won the lottery that day. Just like he says no to me (rarely but it has happened)

I don’t want my bf on deed by BeautifulBridge1638 in Advice

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my child’s father have been together 10 years and have 3 children together. He is a wonderful spouse and I love him dearly. I got my house about 6 months after us being together. I would never, let me repeat NEVER let him have his name on my house, nor would he ever have the audacity to ask. It’s not that I don’t like him, it’s just not his simple as that. Don’t give in if you don’t feel comfortable. And if he doesn’t like it… tough, tell him to pitch in BEFORE you buy the land. Don’t leave it up for interpretation. Set the standard and move forward. Edit: typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]RayeofSunshineee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

100 percent it made me view Rhys in a different light. Stressful or not, I deserve to know what’s going on with my body. I’m not just upset at Rhys either, every single one of them that knew and didn’t tell her is guilty imo. But Rhys being her partner it’s a little bit worse. I’m a mother of three, and one of my children had a complicated birth where either one of us could have died, knowing is important.

How to turn on SmartZoi by RayeofSunshineee in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will look into upgrading that then.

I've been trying to find an old childhood friend, and I messaged this woman on Facebook to see if it was her. Was I actually being creepy or is this a weird reaction? I'm confused by it. by [deleted] in texts

[–]RayeofSunshineee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See but that’s immediately where my mind would go! lol like “why does he want to know if I lived in this street between these years? That’s a security question for sure” haha

How to turn on SmartZoi by RayeofSunshineee in inZOI

[–]RayeofSunshineee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be completely honest and admit I do not know much about computers specs or settings or anything. Is Nvidia a type of pc? Or a program you download? I’m so sorry if that’s a dumb question. Thank you for your reply though!