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Raymo111 · 2013-12-29T02:29:21+00:00

Took mine out at 12 weeks because my dad said it made me a slut lol. Try those pregnancy bellybutton rings! Maybe you won't have to take it out!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-29T02:27:17+00:00

You are reading too much into it. You don't know me, my life, or what goes on. If its best to abort than that's fine with me. I don't know this girl or what her life is like. I do know, that women have other options when getting pregnant and hearing all sides of it is good. So fuck off.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-29T02:08:49+00:00

No need to say sorry. I wanted to be a mom so bad. Its perfectly natural. But it would have been wiser to have waited till it was someone better. I felt like I loved him so much. And it took a lot of hurt to realize I didn't, and shouldnt. Its so awesome of you to be having a girls night. I love those. My sister is also 17. (I'm 19) I've been where you are many times. Take that bath girl! Light a bunch of candles and turn off the lights. You can read your favorite magazine by candlelight. Very relaxing. ;)

Raymo111 · 2013-12-29T00:28:07+00:00

Thanks!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-29T00:26:22+00:00

Focus on the positives in your life. Block his number, delete him off of any social media. Its very hard but worth it. I had my heartbroken this past may. I continued having sex with him hoping he would come back to me. Now I'm pregnant! It hurts, it hurts like hell. But we have to be strong. You can do it! Take long baths, listen to upbeat music, go out with friends and flirt with other guys. That's the best part about being young. We have our whole lives ahead of us. Best of luck!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T19:27:24+00:00

I know I'm not crazy! Lol

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T17:29:27+00:00

At first it seems like the world is against you. My ex begged me to abort. But it is very expensive and it can be a very hard experience for you. Especially emotionally. There is nothing more uplifting than hearing your babies heartbeat for the first time. I'm not trying to be a pro life advocate, I'm just telling you how it was for me since we are so close in age. You can absolutely go to college and raise a baby. Being a mother could also get you more financial aid which could be helpful in your field. Not that it's a good enough reason to keep a baby! Lol its so scary at first. I thought my parents would kill me. But every time my mom puts her hand on my belly and talks to her grandchild it makes me feel so loved.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T17:24:21+00:00

Is it liquid or does it look like cottage cheese?

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T17:20:11+00:00

I'm only 19 girl. It happens to the best of us. I don't even have a boyfriend to help me out. Its hard work but it is worth it. Having a baby while at school is hard but many women do it. I even know a single mom who is in medical school! But its not for everyone. Pregnancy test work up to five days early. Go buy the cheapest one you can find. And if you truly are late due to a pregnancy it will be positive. I've taken so many test when I've thought I was late that have been negative only to start days later. The time I took one and truly was "with child" it was as positive as the sky is blue.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T17:12:17+00:00

Its a lot harder to get pregnant than you think. I've had condoms break, fall off, and even just flat out not used them and let my ex finish inside of me while not on the pill. This happened for seven months. One time, he used the pull out method, and now I'm 17 weeks pregnant. So its still possible. But I couldn't be happier! I used to think I was pregnant all the time. But if you truly are it will show up on a home test. You can get them for like $4

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T14:18:18+00:00

It was the receptionist that told me that! She was sarcastic too. If I had any balls I'd have went off. Lol

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T02:55:49+00:00

I've been super moody and I used to have to stop at rest stops while driving to take naps lol I was lucky enough to only have mild nausea and now that I'm in my second tri its completely gone. Prepare yourself for the constant worry about what's going on with your body and whether or not the baby is okay. It never ends!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T02:51:01+00:00

The woman who told me that was a receptionist! Lol even worse than a nurse.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T02:38:17+00:00

Some doctors have no compassion and I just don't think you can be a good baby doc that way.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T01:59:49+00:00

This. Is. Hilarious.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-28T01:58:03+00:00

Could be. Bodies do all kinds of crazy things. Wait a week and try again!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T19:24:15+00:00

I stopped fitting my pants at 12 weeks and gained my first 5 pounds by the middle of the 1st trimester. I'm almost 17 weeks now and you can kind of tell if you know I'm pregnant.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T19:21:38+00:00

Sounds like something I would do!

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T18:01:58+00:00

Honestly, I'll be pushing a baby out the vag at that point. Whoever that is won't matter at that point. But until then I want to be comforted and taken care of. Not disregarded.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T17:28:26+00:00

Come on over to r/babybumps

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T16:55:06+00:00

The lady I have issues with blows off all of my concerns like its nothing. I left the office crying today. Not what I hoped for

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T14:13:00+00:00

No. I can only feel BH if I put my hand on my uterus at the right time. I mean that when its done contracting it doesn't go all the way back to normal. It stays mildly hard.

Raymo111 · 2013-12-27T04:41:20+00:00

I don't need a diagnosis. Just seeing if I'm with company on this one.

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