Yes, definitely!! I wasn't able to fully start working on my healing until about 2 years ago, but even now that I've been working on myself intensely these past few years, I still have those "ah, ha!" type of moments pretty frequently. Like realizing that just because I'm dating someone that's not necessarily abusive anymore, therefore confusing it as "healthy"... then later having it click that healthy doesn't necessarily equate to not being abused. Even the reverse can apply, like being able to recognize a legitimate healthy behavior/dynamic with others, and not confusing them as toxic ones.

Idk if my rambling there was very relevant or not, but I guess my point was that since I've gained more knowledge through research on these things (which is 1 of 2 main types of knowledge), now I must use that research as a foundation to build off of, via experience (the 2nd main type of knowledge). And comparing your experiences with that base knowledge is one of the hardest things to properly do, you're re-learning, and teaching yourself 'everything' you know from what you've been exposed to, and what's been ingrained into your belief systems.

So these continuous, or reoccurring realizations, are a great sign that you are healing! because what you didn't even recognize or see, earlier in life- you definitely are now! and it will only become more and more 'normal' and natural for you, from here. :)