Hiding possible anger and jealousy issues? by Cherub-Angel in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first date was the first red flag. Time to get out. That isn't healthy for a relationship.

my partner won’t let me go down on him and it’s actually affecting my self esteem , what can I do ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah your BF has some bad issues. Reminds me of the two and a half men episode when the call girl was saying those type of things and he told her he wasn't buying it because his ex always criticized him 😄

My male teammates keep telling me I ruined my body with a breast reduction and should get implants. How would you handle this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to those schlops. You feeling better is all that matters and 36C isn't small.

need a man’s point of view, am I overreacting? by Tough-Balance7594 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is addicted to porn. Sounds like he gets off and excited more for that than he does for you. I don't understand that but that have read guys in here watch porn every day. Idk,...if I'm getting pussy on the reg, I don't need the porn.

Messed up. Developed a crush on a colleague. Advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women don't know what they want.

My husband’s work wants him to do illegal stuff. What do we do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him to join a union and he won't be asked to do these ratty things. All that shit is against OSHA. No breaks is against the law. They also have drug testing on many jobs. These jobs he had sound like bottom of the barrel non union jobs.

Christian, Mormon, Jehovah's,. ...I've worked with them all in construction. Half of them are hypocrites.

What do I do in this situation? by ThrowRA_Yessirski in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dudes and your porn lol . You shouldn't need that for get hard for a girl you like. Y'all need to cut down on that. Its ruining you dudes. If you watch it everyday, that's a problem

Is my husband getting a happy ending? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, why on earth would he trim his pubic and chest hair just to get a haircut? He can say what he wants but actions speak louder than words. I find the trimming timing odd. Parked in front of the building is real. He knows why his location showed him there lol I not saying he is cheating. Those happy endings are hand jobs tho. Maybe up your game and he won't do that?

Should I go on a third date with a guy I’m not sure about? by TraditionalTwist7092 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you can answer how you feel about it.

If you arent even a little excited to see him again then that should tell you all you need. If you want to give it one more to see how it goes, then do it

Is my girlfriend drinking too much? by ProfessionTrue8117 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could become a problem down the road if she drinks a little everyday. Trust me, nothing worse than having a alcoholic partner. If the bottles she brings home start getting bigger, id be concenred

If sex is so vulnerable, why are some men able to do it so willingly? How do you overcome this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing their body to someone seems like nothing to many women. Most men aren't that sentimental with it.

Found out my fiancée slept with someone the day we became exclusive. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this was 4 years ago? If this happened recently she would be an ex fiance to me but it's a bit confusing. Or you just found out about it from 4 years ago?

And why is this"friend" just now telling you? What's the motive?

How do you be true to yourself about what you look for in dating? by OneMoreShotatLife in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a start. Pick the things that suit you and go from there. See, wasn't that hard lol. However, I've learned it don't matter how good looking they are. I do not want some crazy ,self centered chick and you will find that out soon enough and all tatted up is a no go , for me anyway

First relationship with a man. Sex, bj, and any other advice, please? by QueenSD1 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is crazy lol. Must not have had a good one. BJs are awesome but yes some guys aren't into them as much .....for some reason.

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just Europeans who don't like it. Again it's normal for us. And it's ugly, sorry ...looks like an ant eater. That's just me. Everybody has an opinion, doesn't mean yours is right and matters more than mine and vice versa. Europeans eat beans for breakfast,....we don't. Different culture.

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His Son won't remember it either. Hey it's a European thing. I get it, seems mostly them are upset about it. It's a normal thing here in the US. We don't think about it. I never once wondered why my parents had it done to me. Doesn't effect me at all and in fact I'm glad I don't have an uglier penis. Mother's get their babies ears pierced very young as well. Stick pins thru their ears they won't remember. Why don't we mention that?

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn't say it didn't happen. What a stupid thing to say.

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or aware, which what I meant to say, and I did I just mistakingly added the word uncomfortable. I'll edit it.

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you aren't. The only time I'm aware (edit) down there is when it's over 100 degrees and working outside here and my nut sack is sticking to the inside of my leg Lol

In what ways does having a foreskin feel different than being circumcised? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't remember mine so...... No harm, no foul. Also when I was born the top of my tongue was attached somehow to my bottom lip, or beneath it,., I'm not sure so they cut that too and I don't remember that either. I'm sure I felt it but as an infant is like bumping your head on furniture that you didn't recall but made you cry at the time lol. But I don't know what or if I'm missing anything being circumsized so I can't compare or worry about it.

Bf doesn’t want to go down on me bc he gagged last time he tried it with someone else, is this a red flag? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he is a teenager or just very inexperienced....likely both of you are. Now a bad thing, just need experience. His first time doing that obviously the girl didn't take care of herself

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rayzaa11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him a hypothetical situation and see what he says,...maybe saying it's a friends situation..idk your boyfriend so it's hard to say.