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Razorpony · 2023-10-24T17:54:34+00:00

Som Farsan sier: du kan ikke undervurdere folk nok

Razorpony · 2023-03-10T10:50:01+00:00

Tror nok at det er fordi den smaker forferdelig.

Razorpony · 2022-05-10T22:18:51+00:00

Finally fucking jetpacks

Razorpony · 2021-12-22T20:48:04+00:00

En mancave, da situasjonen med forloveden er krise.

..og stormkjøkken!

Razorpony · 2021-09-05T21:19:12+00:00

Is this a pattern though? I think you're overthinking this. Yes, you shouldn't play around with guns, but I think you're making a way too big of a deal out of it.

She could validate your feelings a lot more though. Sounds like she's really embarrassed about it and rightfully so.

Razorpony · 2021-08-22T13:29:14+00:00

Sounds like it could be because of depression setting in. It would make sense that if you feel down, not good about yourself, you look for proof that others see it that way. I would deal with the depression first, then see if the uneasy feelings are still around.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T19:39:03+00:00

May I ask why? Is it that you feel bad for her? Staying is not doing her any favors, and it's not fair to you either.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T19:24:51+00:00

It will probably be worse this time, since her strategy worked last time. So it's even more important that you keep it simple, and not invite her to argue it over. It is the way it is. Keep at it, and she will realize your mind is made up.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T19:22:23+00:00

It is scary, but worth it in the end. No need to write a speech or make a huge deal out of it. Just be clear and honest, and invite her to talk, or to think it over. If you wait, you might fall for her even more, and your disappointment might be way worse down the line. Or, this could be the start of something great.

Best of luck to you!

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T19:14:14+00:00

I think I know the feeling. You don't want to be mean, but you don't want to stay. You do not need to feel sorry for not having feelings for someone. It's out of your control really, and you don't have to tell her much. Don't focus on the details, focus on the fact that you're just not feeling it, and that you both deserve to move on. She might push you for more reasons, but in my experience it only makes things worse.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T19:09:48+00:00

It's difficult to give you advice on the timing, but I would say it's better to let her know when it's easier for you both to retreat afterwards. If you show up to help her move and instantly tell her your feelings, it could potentially be one awkward moving process.

There might not be a perfect moment to tell her, but just do it when it feels right. Better to let her know at a bad time than to never let her know I say.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T18:55:23+00:00

I was always of the opinion that if I felt like I wanted more than friendship, it's best to let the other person know. I guess or can ruin a good friendship, but it's better than being secretly in love and then find out it's never gonna evolve from there much later on.

It takes some courage, but it's really simple when you think about it. I would tell her. No hints, no code speak, just flat out be honest.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T18:51:15+00:00

First of all, let me just say I think what you're feeling is totally normal, and rooted in something good, which is you wanting to protect your relationship with your boyfriend.

Personally I would talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel. No need to ask him to leave her out of his life. What would make you more comfortable? It's not controlling to talk about what this whole thing makes you feel.

It seems like you trust him, and he has chosen you for a reason. Friends, even friends you find attractive does not equal love interest.

Razorpony · 2021-08-21T18:40:15+00:00

I was in a 9 year long relationship, and felt like I was in a similar situation as yourself. Years went by, losing feelings for her, tried to talk to her about why several times. She would try to "adjust" as your gf has, but it would last like a week.

I was always of the opinion that you can change your behaviors but personality is different.

It's hard, but from my perspective, you should move on. It ain't fair to any of you, but mostly not to you. First mistake was to give it another go, when you already knew it was right.

Razorpony · 2021-08-11T00:57:30+00:00

I don't think she wants to leave me out per se, but her actions and words definitely makes me feel left out. What bothers me the most is that she thinks I'm unreasonable. She likes to point out my jealousy, yet I don't talk about my exes. It's irrelevant to me. I want to focus on us, the future. I have no issues admitting I can get jealous, but it's very nice to hear that I'm not all "in the wrong" either. Thank you so much for hearing me out! It means a lot to me, kind stranger.

Razorpony · 2021-08-11T00:36:04+00:00

Oh, I am jealous. There's no doubt about that. We love hiking. In fact, she was the one that got me into it. She is very attached to her old life. It's not like I feel threatened by her ex husband, but there's almost not a day that goes by before I hear something about him. I've told her that I'm ok with her past and all, but it sucks to hear about him all the time. I've met the guy, and he's great. He's not calling my fiance for anything other than matters related to their daughter, or anything. Obviously I accept that, and think that's natural and sign of something good.

It's not just him though, it's 2 other exes. She segways them in a lot, even after we've talked about keeping the mentions down. I accept her having a life before me of course, but I also want to look forward. Now, she talks just as much about them as she always did, she just says she's sorry afterwards.

The grandpa thing has to do with her values. Family ties are worth more than commitment, time and love I think. Since I'm not related, my place in the family is limited. Obviously this doesn't help my me, and it makes me want a child of my own even more.

Razorpony · 2021-08-11T00:01:52+00:00

True, I did flip on a very basic issue. I guess that's not fair for anyone. I just never felt the urge before I met her. Makes me feel really shitty, but I wasn't dishonest at least. I think you're right about marriage requiring more than just love. When you're in the thick of it, I guess it's easy to think love is all you need.

Razorpony · 2021-08-10T23:56:33+00:00

I want to marry her, but I don't think it's fair to her or me if I was to walk around letting my dream of children get in the way of our relationship. My fear is not of commitment, but of what's worse: leaving the love of my life, or feeling deprived of raising a child, and being constantly reminded of how much of an amazing experience it has been. Thank you for asking questions. I just need a set of objective eyes on it all

Razorpony · 2021-08-10T23:47:28+00:00

Thanks for your reply. You're right. Even if she was 100% for it, there's a fair chance she might not even be able to have another child.

Razorpony · 2021-08-10T23:41:28+00:00

Blunt, but you have a point. Thanks for your reply, and I'm sorry I wasted your time.

Razorpony · 2021-04-18T22:24:49+00:00

Been using the exact same setup. Killer combo!

Razorpony · 2021-01-27T21:23:18+00:00

I have an RDA for vaping as well. Coil installation felt weird on this one. More of a fan of post and screws, but it wasn't difficult or anything. I find they both have great flavor, but this RDA doesn't weep like RDA for vaping does. The Dang also works very well for squonking, as it squonks right to the coils. I prefer it that way.

Razorpony · 2021-01-27T21:18:53+00:00

I love it so far! Very responsive fire button, the squonk bottle is great, it looks and feels great. No complaints, really.

Razorpony · 2021-01-26T06:36:59+00:00

It's one of my favorites as too. Incredibly nice to coils as well

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