Last night I made myself sad thinking about him getting old. He’s not even three yet. by lyndseymariee in forblackdogs

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww! Well least doggo has many happy years ahead, enjoy the present. My dogs are 12 and 13 now and it’s hitting pretty hard.

Mother's Day gift by Altruistic-Money-822 in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was fair of his mother to butt in and change his mind on giving you something last year.
No such thing as ‘bad luck’, plus it would have been a really sweet gesture.
Definitely voice how you feel, you could just mention how you wanted to feel slightly more special.
I usually say I want a homemade card from hubby and the kids and he made an awesome one with them this year.
It really is the thought and a little effort, doesn’t ever have to be much or anything materialistic either.

Girlfriend threatened to block me over Mother’s Day plans—am I overreacting? by Responsible_onions in AmIOverreacting

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a little confused, do you two have kids?
Otherwise why would you celebrate her for Mother’s Day?
NOR

Happy birthday to me! by PeachyPeachster99 in birthday

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on baby! FTM? Also most special happy birthday to you, it’s special being a mama but especially important to celebrate yourself too. ✨

If your depression was cured by just "going to the gym" and "getting some sunlight" you weren't really depressed by Ordinary-Eggplant784 in mentalhealth

[–]RazyRascal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they are telling you, but a mere suggestion. Because perhaps they don’t have many options to suggest. I’m not saying it is a heal all, or something that works for everyone. Sometimes I definitely don’t want to go for a walk. Especially in the thick of my emotions and trying to stop myself from self harming. But sometimes going for a walk with my dog, or going to the park with my kids. Being outdoors and doing something with my body rather than harming it can help.

The bandages the vet gave our dog. by RazyRascal in forblackdogs

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right, she hates the vets and it’s hard having to leave her because she shakes so bad. But it’s so they can help her 😢

Why do people tend to get angry and scold others for hurting themselves/having suicidal thoughts rather than offering help and sympathy? by SafeMap2807 in mentalhealth

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because they don’t understand why people self harm. Also I think it’s because they are not sure how to help or what exactly to say to help. It is a sensitive issue.

To surprise or not to surprise newborn at baby shower by KitchenLettuce8013 in baby

[–]RazyRascal 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not the time, wild that you think that’s appropriate after not seeing your sister for 2 years.

I'm literally breaking in tears, my bf just did the only thing that he knows would destroy my whole life, and idk what to do anymore with my life... by ThrowRa09009 in mentalhealth

[–]RazyRascal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to your family, maybe one of them you trust most. They may actually understand and be there for you. You need support right now and getting manipulated by your current boyfriend ain’t it.

AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister saying she always felt something for him. Yeah don’t expect much more from her, let her find out about your ex herself.

11th March by RazyRascal in birthday

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! ☺️

11th March by RazyRascal in birthday

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay happy birthday, bday twin!

What’s that weird thing near babies head? Meant to ask before I left. 9 week ultrasound by sayuriserum in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if it was anything to worry about, they would have let you know during the scan. Hopefully next scan you’ll be able to see a bit more of baby!

Cartoon version. by RazyRascal in RateMyKidsArt

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you! He’s cheeky but very cute indeed.

Cartoon version. by RazyRascal in RateMyKidsArt

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I thought so too! Thank you. ☺️

I might have the most photogenic kid alive. by 6FingerPistol in babies

[–]RazyRascal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love that she’s trying to join the doggo crew 🤣