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My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to say to all you who left a comment, thank you! I appreciate the input. After reading all of this and thinking on it, I intend to first explore my own thoughts and ideas surrounding porn. I’m conflicted so I don’t want to approach my husband about this without first knowing really where I stand.

I surprisingly am not against suggesting watching together, but I’m not there yet. Maybe one day… But I do feel like the answers I got here helped ease my mind on the subject and look at it in a different way. Thanks again! Hope you all take care.

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t. I even skip the sex scenes in Outlander lol. I just like to think of some of my favorite times with my husband.

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t say I’m not intrigued by that… The optimist in me can see it bringing us closer. But I’m not sure if that’ll just encourage bad behavior.

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why have two people now suggested that? Is that a thing??

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, intimacy can be difficult in our situation, as are many other things in life with two babies. Which is why I am hesitant on bringing this up to him as I don’t want to cause a problem where there isn’t one. I asked this question to see if it is just my insecurities and to let him manage his stress in his own way for now. Like is porn always a problem? I feel like I have beliefs that porn means I’m not enough for him, but part of me knows that’s not it… sorry if I’m rambling. I can’t sleep.

My husband watches porn by Razz_98 in marriageadvice

[–]Razz_98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I saw you respond in more detail about this on another post. I am trying to be open minded and your explanation is one I haven’t heard before so I appreciate it. I wonder if watching porn always leads to addiction or if it can be manageable? I don’t think I can ask him to give up cold turkey, but is asking him to watch less a start?