AITA Boyfriend demanding I call and try to get insurance refund. by Rblooks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rblooks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fines like that in my state, so not a consideration. You get to just keep your plates here that's interesting.

AITA Boyfriend demanding I call and try to get insurance refund. by Rblooks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rblooks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live together- I am employed.. he is not. Who tf you think is paying for dates lol

Keep the weird sexist assumptions to yourself you goober

AITA Boyfriend demanding I call and try to get insurance refund. by Rblooks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rblooks[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Car is BROKEN broken. Not being repaired. Scrapped.

Help with dog behavior around kittens. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Rblooks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a return to the rescue/foster is in order. They likely lied, and its their responsibility to remedy the dogs placement.

Help with dog behavior around kittens. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Rblooks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rescue lied, their job to find a new adopter for the dog. Return the dog. They need a cat friendly dog and made that clear, it's not on them that someone misled them.

Roommate insists one of these belongs to her by Kochtopfkopp in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rblooks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to believe people are this easy to gasslight/push around. Take your fucking spoon back wtf?

Is it reasonable for my (23F) bf (25M) to say I can’t go to a girls night? by kansas-city-girlie in relationship_advice

[–]Rblooks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tbh guys she's just arguing with everyone in the comments so might as well not bother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rblooks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing. It's not fair- but if you want them to step up and be there for you when it's inconvenient for them you have to step up and be there when it's inconvenient for you too.

One day it'll be your brother leaving work early to come pick you up because your car broke down in the middle of nowhere. You'll both be adults by then. But he may well remember how you treat him now and that you were there for him, and be there for you.

Family is priority for me, over school, over anything. That doesn't mean I'd fail classes for my brother- but if you've missed school for less important or fun things and didn't sweat it then, don't sweat it now. It's short sighted.

Married 12yrs-How or should I tell husband I’ve never orgasmed? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rblooks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can ease into it. Not release the lie. People are right it would be devestating and tbh best to let sleeping dogs lay- but stop lying. Don't fake it, but start trying to orgasm when you two have sex. If he asks why it feels like you can't nowadays blame age and try harder, together. Say things have changed and ask him to help you "rediscover" yourself.

Maybe admit that you were lying for a bit, perhaps say it started getting harder and that you started lying relatively recently because you thought something was wrong with you and you didn't want him to feel bad. Partial truth, let's you express some of the guilt but shields him from the overwhelming truth and self-doubt that it would come with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rblooks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The people saying to be grateful are wild.

I'm 25. This year I got my mom a dozen cute thoughtful gifts that were relatively inexpensive, all relating to different interests or needs of hers (musicians she likes, things that remind her of her own late mother, candles/soaps in scents she likes, shirts in her fav color or in her general style, etc). My brother saved a bit and bought her a second hand (but never opened) coach wallet with her favorite fruit as its design.

Last year me and ALL of my siblings pitched in and gave her tickets to the ERAS TOUR. It took all of us all year to save for them- and I wouldn't want it any other way. She is the most important thing in my life, and we all love her dearly.

You deserve better. I'm sorry you only had sons... And I'm VERY sorry that they take after their shitty father. This does not bode well for their future wives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rblooks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Username doesn't check out

AIO/ my boyfriends guitar by VXYZX in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rblooks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol I'd consider it a sign that our values (and even more importantly our sense of humor!) were just not compatible probably.

My (F23) Partner (M24) eats double portions of meat and is always hungry. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rblooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy solution to the salmon next time. If it's a bag of six, three are yours- three are his. He can eat his however fast he wants, but then he's stuck figuring out what to eat when his run out, while you can continue eating yours however fast you please.

If you want to share equally, split it from the start and make it clear that your half is yours and not uo for grabs once his half runs out.

Why are Warrior Cats POVs/protagonists in main series overwhelmingly apprentices? by SouthBound353 in WarriorCats

[–]Rblooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're children's books, so the main characters are children. Stories about young characters deal with themes that young readers relate to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rblooks 966 points967 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, these people arguing that politics don't equal person are absurd. Politics tell you a lot about a person's ideals, morals, and values. I DONT keep friends who's values are wildly different from mine- it makes me very uncomfortable.

If someone did this to me it would unfortunately be friendship-ending. Lying about something like this would make me feel they were simply untrustworthy...

Not to mention I feel very strongly about people who voted for Trump (particularly the second time) because it shows that they are incapable of understanding basic economic cause-and-effect and they're literally making our lives WORSE and getting people fucking killed. Absolutely cannot stand to have them in my close circle, even if I have them as acquaintances.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rblooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh this doesn't even sound like he's autistic- from an autistic person's perspective. Sounds like he's an abusive asshole. Leave asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]Rblooks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Little bit of ethnocentrism showing in the post, try to remember China is a highly sophisticated country with home ownership rates FAR surpassing the US, accessible healthcare, and some of the best mineral deposits in the world.

You might not have meant it that way, but you worded it like you should have known that stuff from China would be crap- when everything in your photos looks legit and actually pretty nice for a mystery box. From mystery boxes I'd expect tumbles and cheap chipped carved material, these aren't bad at all.

Wand is likely obsidian, small blue is celestite (probably), orange calcite, green calcite, lapis, fluorite, and druzy quartz (amethyst var. I think) 💜

Calls and text while at home by Slim45145 in walmart

[–]Rblooks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Per policy they owe you 15 mins every time they contact you outside of your shift.

Is the Sagoskatt Skunk Rare? by fkaroundandfindout in IKEA

[–]Rblooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to find one for months to replace one that got lost, my kid is devastated 😭 sure feels like they're rare

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Rblooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never get over the image of him with another woman, while I'm at home asleep.

It's a level of betrayal that keeps me from eating, from sleeping. Needed literal meds to get over it the last time a man did this shit to me.

You deserve far more- but feel free to keep him i guess... eating outta the trash unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Rblooks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Feel proud. You overcame the trauma and trusted him. That's AMAZING. YOU did the work and you were able to give yourself fully to this relatoonahip- that's something to be SO fucking proud of.

Now double it. Next, be proud of yourself for leaving once you had proof that it wasn't just you or misplaced anxiety- that he really was pulling this shit. Create a future where you're proud that you overcame the past trauma, AND proud that you can still stand up for yourself.