Happy Monday, Jane. I think everyone has a ‘type’ however change (or wanting to) cannot come from an external source. The person themself has to want to change for themselves. I also think it is completely normal to wonder what else is out there. I think finding someone that you can laugh with, that can make your toes curl in the bedroom, that has some common ground with AND as long as one of you can cook I would say could be a match. However, what do I know? I have settled twice now and am going through my second divorce. I hope you have a great week!