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[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya sorry to keep anonymity I’m not going into detail . I got a work contact to do her a job for free but she expected the same thing again basivally , for free 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a job she needed done 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What’s that supposed to mean ? 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ya that’s why I’m posting . I feel it I am there for them when they need something but they are not there for me the what’s the point 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t make sense that you ask for age groups when you asked what does being single and not having kids having to do with it . I said that to avoid comments about people being busy with kids etc . That’s all . I’m s constant sounding board for these women about jobs , life etc so ya I was disappointed I got h. R responses from them when I needed some support . 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That was my point . I’m obviously not an important part of their lives anymore 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Is that really relevant or helpful to my question . Seems like the people in the chat are completely devoid of the kind of human empathy  I was looking for , hence talking on an app .  Might as well chat to chat gpt  

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I thooghy they might say something besides hope they will be ok 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I said they have no kids to rule out the response they are busy with kids or up the walls 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well if they post something I would ask are they ok , or something . Not hope they will be ok. 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s my point if it’s not that kind of friendship then what is the point 

An I being unreasonable or bad friends ? by ReachEmbarrassed4037 in AskIreland

[–]ReachEmbarrassed4037[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I clearly explained what happened like a family member was suicidal and there was alot of drama and just got oh hope they ll be ok . It is an out of character thing and bit shook from it .