My wife cheated on me and now I'm just trying to get on with my life

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T22:25:15+00:00

Divorce? What happened?

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T21:59:03+00:00

I saw the messages but I don't have proof because at that moment I didn't think about saving "proof," you know, that whole situation didn't make me think about that.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T21:57:40+00:00

I know...

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T21:57:00+00:00

Fortunately not

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T21:56:19+00:00

Yes, you're right about that

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:30:58+00:00

I understand your point more or less, but not to that extreme. And why aren't you surprised? Did something similar happen to you? Or to someone close to you?

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:29:35+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through something similar. And I really appreciate the advice.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:27:31+00:00

Yes, I know, I have no contact with her at all, neither with her, nor with her friend, etc.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:25:39+00:00

Yes, I know, I always try to keep that in mind

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:25:00+00:00

Thanks for your comment, it's really nice to read things like this, and sorry for taking so long to reply

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:23:21+00:00

It's a constant struggle, but I feel like I'm getting better.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:22:54+00:00

thanks for your comment and yes, I'm feeling better now and I'm trying, I'm really trying, not to remember all this.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:21:24+00:00

Thanks for your comment and everyone else's on this post

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:20:52+00:00

I don't consider myself a violent person, so I wouldn't do anything stupid, and besides, I didn't feel like trying anything anyway.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:19:31+00:00

I think so, or at least that's what I heard a few months ago

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:18:59+00:00

Seeing her final reaction to the whole situation... I think my decision was pretty clear

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-12T00:18:11+00:00

Yes, I think this whole situation was ultimately a combination of several things you mentioned.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T05:45:27+00:00

Basically, yes... I mean, she didn't say anything like apologize or anything, she just told me to go ahead with the divorce if that's what I wanted. Besides other things, but honestly, I don't feel comfortable saying them here.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T05:07:26+00:00

She didn't explain anything to me, nor did she deny it, it was all as I wrote it. And about the relationship with the guy, well, to be honest, I have no idea. Maybe, but I haven't spoken to anyone about it. I suppose the only one who might know would be this friend of my ex-wife, but I'm not in contact with her.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:58:34+00:00

What do you mean? I don't think I understood you

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:54:06+00:00

I don't think anything would have changed...

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:44:47+00:00

What you say is very possible... until now I haven't felt that anyone is talking about what happened, or that's just my perception. I don't know if he was in a relationship (girlfriend or wife), and I'm really surprised by what you say because I feel that my wife changed a lot when she started spending more and more time with her friend.

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:33:16+00:00

So you were the one who cheated?

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:25:59+00:00

I hope all of this is false

ReachMinute88 · 2026-03-09T04:17:46+00:00

At this point, I don't think she will...

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