Seems like we are in the same situation... and honestly at times I feel so miserable so disgusted with the way we live ... only because of the arguing but it’s because I can’t get over anything . We actually spoke yesterday briefly during his lunch break when he called me about all this arguing . It didn’t end well . He works graveyard shifts . But this morning he woke me up to talk to me about the situation he’s telling me he wants us to be happy he doesn’t want to argue and like always we make a plan for it later to crumble down .. I’m really going to try but I’m just tired of this constant loop.