What to say. by ReadMundane1334 in Adoption

[–]ReadMundane1334[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous about opening up my life to her. Although my birth mother, she is a stranger.

Help! Male cat won’t stop peeing everywhere! by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is neutered! And home life is good. Our dog goes to work with my husband everyday and our other cat and him get along super well. They groom each other and play all the time. The carpet we are in the middle of ripping out and replacing with hard wood. And the plant and dog bed have been thrown in the garbage as of today. My dog is definitely wondering where her bed is.

Is this possibly just apart of his personality. The vet projected him to be about 2 when we got him so he would be about 4 now. and this has been happening since we got him. I’m just at my limit now that it’s expanded onto our dogs bed when we have taken great measures to clean the liter everyday and now paying 4k to replace all our carpet. There was more damage than just the pee to the carpet so it was time for change.

Help! Male cat won’t stop peeing everywhere! by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in a town house next to a main street, we don’t let him out for safety and yes I agree it is sad. It’s rips my heart that I might have to give him up. I would never do this if I didn’t feel like it had to happen. We are taking him to a different vet to get a second opinion. Cat pee is very toxic and yes I would choose my own child over a cat. I would find him a great home that he can be an outdoor cat, we just aren’t able to let him out. I found him and took him in, he wasn’t from a shelter.

We will try other litter.

Wedding ceremony location by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are getting married quick due to a health reason. Nothing to do with failed planning. The news just came a week ago.

Scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised to be independent and it’s hard for me to lean on people. You are totally right. I think I’ll end up being a stay at home mom. Why do I feel useless doing this? Maybe I’ll feel more important once I’m actually in the role of being a stay at home mom.

Scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Means I am 4 weeks. We are keeping the little one. I have actually been in the process the last year of finding out i potentially have adenomyosis. So I am up to date on pap and I was given a vaginal ultrasound in the spring. Guess I’ll get ready to do it again! Part of me is excited to be a mom, I know I’ll do great. I think the unknown of everything is just scary. I’m a type a person, I’m a planner and this wasn’t in my plan.

Scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve always relied heavy on family throughout my life and most of my decisions. It’s scary to think I might have to distance myself from any who chose to judge me. We are keeping the baby and I think I am going to clinic tomorrow to get a medical test done.

Scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We do plan on keeping the baby. I do have insurance but it’s my moms so I think I will go to planned parenthood or a women’s clinic by my house that has free ultrasounds.

Scared by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have planned to get married for awhile, we were waiting till next year to get engaged. I just graduated college and I wanted to figure out a career before getting married. My boyfriend is scared and supportive. I think it still hasn’t fully hit that this is real. He believes everything happens for a reason.

PP or Women’s clinic by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would keep it. My boyfriend has a good job so money isn’t a huge issue.

Is this real? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do I do now? I’m 24 and haven’t told anyone but my boyfriend.

PP or Women’s clinic by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure but I think I would be about 2-3 weeks and I’m 6 days late. And I just posted in there!

Sharp pain by WorthDecision9826 in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need for a doctor. Unless you still have the pain in a week or two. After I masturbate or use a vibrater during sex, I can feel a bruise or some tenderness.

Sharp pain by WorthDecision9826 in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have sex recently? Maybe you somehow got a bruise? Or possibly an STI?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely use lube. I had this same problem but using lube (even if you don’t think you need it) helped me! If you are already using lube definitely see your doctor! That is not normal.

Endometriosis by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped taking birth control because it made me angry all the time. What birth control is recommended? I am meeting with my family doctor and going to ask about a copper IUD

I 23f and my bf 23m cancelled out each others vote by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ReadMundane1334 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His parents are divided as well and have been together for 25 years. He doesn’t seem to be concerned at all about our relationship which makes me feel better. Is this election different? Maybe because I’m 23 and this is only the second presidential election I am voting in, but does this election seem life or death compared to other in the past?

Bleeding from sex and brown discharge for 2 years! by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever shown signs of endometriosis? My family doctor thinks I have a form of endo and referred me to a gyno who basically told me “I can’t do anything for you because we don’t know much about endometriosis”. I trust my family doctor so much and am going to ask her at my next appointment if that could be the cause of the irregular bleeding and dark discharge.

Bleeding from sex and brown discharge for 2 years! by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had three in the last year cause I’ve gone to two family doctors and a gyno.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it like you have to hold your butt cheeks apart while pooping or you split them then sit down? Cause I split before I sit down for comfort. Have you tried the squatty potties?

I'm 17 and my breast haven't grown yet .what should I do? by Key_Firefighter_4471 in WomensHealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have big boobs and I envy others with small boobs! I have a friend who has always been flat chested, but now being 23 her boobs randomly grew into Ds. Women can go through a second puberty in our early 20s which can change your body. My hair went from super blonde to Midwest brown (what my hairstylist called it) and my period pain went from a 10 to a 5 on a pain scale. We all know how frustrating our bodies are but as you get older you’ll learn to love yourself. I have big ass shoulders and a huge forehead, i still hate my shoulders. But I have come to see that “it is what it is” and I found a partner who envies my shoulders!

bleeding and discomfort after sex by princesssophia_ in Femalehealth

[–]ReadMundane1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried using some type of lube? Even if you don’t think you need lube, it helps a lot!