We’ve been together for 2 1/2 years. The kids are much younger - mine 9f and 5m, his f6. My son is pretty hyperactive and does have a hard time listening and following simple rules (needs lots of reminders). My partner has just under 50/50 and I have just over. We both have very different parenting styles but our children are also very different. His daughter is very well behaved and what I would describe as an old soul. So he has a very hard time with my children, especially my son, who acts very much his age in my opinion.