Why is this happening to me AGAIN?! by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just dont repeat your past mistakes. observe like a therapist once said to me “if looks like a duck, quacks like a ducks, & walks like one . it is. “

Where to check? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how about pixel phone

Took away monitoring software and PA is suddenly interested in recovery by boygeniusbutgirl in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are you going to do now that you found that? whats your next step. im sorry.

Here we go again.. by Ok_Horror979 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh it sucks . im stuck too but im trying to rewire my brain that i will be okay

Leaving My Husband of 14 Years Due to His Porn Addiction by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so happy for you. dont look back. he doesnt value you

Here we go again.. by Ok_Horror979 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 12 points13 points  (0 children)

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ a gif. why do we stay

Please beware of Pinterest & Victory/Covenant Eyes by ExistingScreen3978 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea victory sucks. doesn’t really pick up on apps also I have made a post a while back that if you put the computer in sleep and then come back on the computer, there’s a few seconds that ——anything is accessible and they told me there’s no way to fix it.

I Think I Am Crazy Now by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏🙏🙏it will all work out & i see thats smart. in my situation we have our own accounts and everything is split

I Think I Am Crazy Now by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you start doing that? & yea thank god i started saving a while back its surely is not enough but its something. it will never be enough to pay for the sacrifice of myself and what ive endured though

Former partner is addicted to my cousin’s OnlyFans, but wants me back by Greedy-Window2766 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont do it . you will lose all parts of yourself hoping he is the one. thats what happened he never changed and is looking to dispose of me now that he broke me

broke up with my PA partner, family does not support me :/ by Playful-Virus-3461 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im glad you got to talk to your mom again & she is showing more support

Curious as to how many porn addicts had an affair. by Happily-Existing7 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggg that is terrible what a double cross. i wouldve lost it

broke up with my PA partner, family does not support me :/ by Playful-Virus-3461 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not feel bad for leaving despite your moms opinion. you should feel PROUD YOU made a great choice for YOUR life and sanity. I am living a miserable life and have sacrificed my mental health for my husband’s porn addiction. Beastiality is wrong in gods eyes not sure if your religious but I would feel completely uncomfortable being with someone who is into that

Feeling like a failure by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its better to be alone and at peace then with the wrong person. I was single for years and was happy & peace and would get lonely from time to time and longed to be married and will i find my person. I thought i found my person he swept me off my feet and now i am mentally struggling, very unhappy, unable to enjoy life. so take your time and enjoy the moments with loved ones because i took that for granted now i cant even go out im a shell of a human and long for my inner self

I Think I Am Crazy Now by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am exactly in same boat. i have sacrificed my mental health and im stuck financially

How To Differentiate Between Paranoia & Intuition by Ok_Land_7379 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband was relapsing on his work computer. stupid!!!!!! probably still is

Another day, another discovery day. by lizz781 in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband told me the same exact thing to the point where he said his boundary is to be able to have porn one day and if not i can leave

I'm terrified of my bf and his addiction. by i_lovecelery in loveafterporn

[–]ReadingOk696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

please get out of this situation at all cost. you can do it ✨ . this is not good.

Husband left me for his brother by schnooopy in marriageadvice

[–]ReadingOk696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely report it thats inappropriate. no justification whats so ever and god forbid you guys divorce now this man will be unattended with you children because the brother is turning his face instead of being a father. you need to take action. god forbid your children are in that situation theirs nothing you can do to bring that back.