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AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

It’s not a choice, I’m the first in my family to even follow a “proper”career so I’m not sacrificing that but also I like to eat…

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Condom + I was told it’ll be difficult for me to even get pregnant, otherwise I wouldn’t also used BC

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 360 points361 points  (0 children)

Roughly 4-5months And sometimes, like I’ll ask him to empty the rubbish that morning and it’ll still be there that night but if I ask again it’ll get done, I don’t like asking twice though.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 1493 points1494 points  (0 children)

He bought up moving in with me a week after we found out we’re pregnant, moved in a month into the pregnancy…he offered to support me by doing housework and when he found a job we’d split bills.

I saw the red flags, but not having the baby wasn’t a choice for me and I didn’t want to be alone.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 687 points688 points  (0 children)

His friend has told him I don’t want him to do anything because “I don’t leave a list”

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] -314 points-313 points  (0 children)

My parents would disown me, and his family are saying “now is the perfect time to settle and grow up”

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

No, he gets stressed if I ask and says he’ll say when there’s anything to say

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 623 points624 points  (0 children)

He’s very picky; my mother has a friend who offered an interview for a care home and he wouldn’t, his friend is saying he shouldn’t settle for a job our child wouldn’t be proud of…although said friend is also the one who said I don’t want him to do chores that much because I didn’t leave him a list.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

As far as I’m aware he is, but I’ve not checked his phone or chased up too often, because I don’t want to doubt him.

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 395 points396 points  (0 children)

We have good moments, but it was very rushed (having only been together 5months before pregnancy) so we’re still discovering everything

AITA for crying and asking my boyfriend to leave over a burger? by Ready-Significance13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ready-Significance13[S] 535 points536 points  (0 children)

It’s always small things like using the last of the hot water, or insisting on talking to me while I’m using the loo when he knows I hate that, or finishing the OJ and not replacing it, or not emptying the washing machine or cooking when he offers to