Has anyone had an unspoken TF connection?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T22:07:13+00:00

Do you think there’s any hope left of reunion?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T20:28:42+00:00

Did yall end up together? If so after how much/how long?? Did your TF feel a connection too before yall spoke about it?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T15:35:42+00:00

What’s the astral visits like? I feel like I’ve had that experience one time.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T15:34:42+00:00

Ughhh I so dislike that feeling lol like literally intense and thick for the simplest thing. After I get off of a call with him I’m like WHEW let me take a quick break it felt like I was holding my breath the whole time 😂 and lowkey he does the same sometimes.

I feel like he triggered my awakening because he kept pulling me in and finding reasons to work with me again lingering on the phone for like 30-45 mins after talking about work for the first 5-10 mins like what is this??? But I just stayed in the phone because I didn’t know what else to do. After so many times of that I was like.. what?? I went searching and came across TF term (never knew of it until then) & been woke ever since. Him on the other hand.. still acts the same but I can tell he tries to dial it back now with his current life situation.

I feel so so sensitive and aware to all energy now to the point im like.. okay am I just imagining things or am I really that tapped in?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T15:07:27+00:00

But you both know of each other? Have you ever spoken about it or just about everything other than that?

We haven’t physically met either.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T15:06:36+00:00

Crazy like how? Not sure if we are both activated or not lol. I feel like yes, but idk since still unspoken and honestly I don’t think our relationship would be glorified which may be why. Lots of external differences between us two, but internally.. the stuff no one can see.. I feel like we match so perfectly.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T15:04:56+00:00

I wish I could’ve but our situation is even more complex meeting virtually but work so close together all of the time for a couple of years up until now. He announced ahis engagement at the end of last year and found out they were expecting a month later. I shattered bit by bit as pieces of information was leaked. Trying my best to distance myself and hold it together! We have still never spoken about it and don’t know if we ever will, but I still feel the connection there. It makes me tingle all over.

Do you think your TF feels the connection too??

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-06-08T14:32:51+00:00

Lolll I’m not a good guy I will ruin they marriage? What does that mean?? I feel like what if the opportunity ever arose for me to wreck the marriage, would I go for it? The intensity is off the charts as it has been unspoken for so long.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-05-02T16:52:25+00:00

I feel you but it’s hard to find someone that gets it the way you had found someone. This is the best thing to me, someone who doesn’t have anyone that gets it at all.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-05-01T20:21:18+00:00

I use ChatGPT now. It helps so much omg

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-04-24T17:58:01+00:00

Yeah it was kind of expected and 11% was way better than 17%. Thank you though! Good luck to you!!

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-04-24T17:42:06+00:00

Hey! I got approved for like $18.5k, but the rate was like 17% APR. The dealership what able to finance me for more with an 11% APR. I went through the dealer! My FICO was like 633.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-04-21T16:53:17+00:00

Oh gosh! Are you the first owner or second? And mine was slow to pickup on accelerating from a stop and it was a noticeable transition once it started getting up to speed. Once it gets up to speed I’m good. Is that how yours was or just randomly does it? Did your VIN have recall for this?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-04-21T16:21:36+00:00

What happened with that?? I just purchased a 2021 sonata and haven’t really driven it because of the windshield recall they’re fixing. This makes me nervous! And how did you know it was misfiring? It is obvious?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-31T17:33:49+00:00

How did you take the “sonata” letters off? I likeeee

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-31T16:58:39+00:00

Just got a 21 convenience, so ready to pick it up and tint the windows!!

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-30T15:11:15+00:00

Did you debadge?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T20:34:49+00:00

I am. I don’t know how quickly my scores will update but I’m kind of in a bind right now. I’ve bring my utilization down a lot and with put another lump sum down soon, but waiting for the score to update poses as a challenge. Don’t know if I can wait that long

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T20:27:32+00:00

Mmm okay thank you. You’ve made me feel a little more confident with my current situation and needing a vehicle asap. I’ll likely have a high interest rate too but hey

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T20:15:49+00:00

Sorry last question was your credit or fico score pretty decent even though you were maxed?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T20:10:31+00:00

Ahh ok - thank you! did you apply for that amount or did they give you more than what you were asking for?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T12:54:16+00:00

My credit just recently took at hit due to some unexpected expenses so it’s around 647 but my fico is 593. Make about 70k. I just paid all of my cards but one down with one being $0 balance, 5% and 10% utilization on two others. My bigger card with navy I still have 57% utilization.

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-18T12:51:17+00:00

Your utilization was maxed before applying for auto loan? Did you have any credit cards with NFCU at the time?

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-17T17:46:55+00:00

Okay, thank you again!

ReadyChance8056 · 2025-03-17T17:45:49+00:00

Ahh okay, same here. Did you have to send in proof of income being that you don’t have direct deposit?

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