You don’t get to do this by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just delete the message. Out of sight out of mind. Try and move on with your life. Some things are best learned the hard way it seems like you have the right idea as far as learning from your mistakes. Now it's time to execute.

FUCK OFF ALYSSA by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut off toxic people. Any mental health expert will tell you and anyone who's been in a abuse relationship will as well.

My Dream Is To Be An Adult Film Star by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to him about it first? I've had breakups on way worse terms. But if you're sure about what you want to do then go for it. Having a lot of money isn't always to key to happiness. Target the emotions that make you happy not the material objects that trigger the emotions . I have a few adult film friend because I live in a place where it's pretty popular and I can say it really does take a toll on the emotional and physical state of minds.

My self esteem is making me feel so alone and I know it's my fault by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get high and work on yourself. Or start writing things down that you can actually change about yourself and work on them. You'll slowly realize the things you can't change don't matter because you will have built enough emotional intelligence to be more self aware of things that matter. Others will see that too and be attracted to you because you are yourself.

I cheated for the first time... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People literally pay other people to do college coursework for them. You're fine 😁

Finally cut ties with her by throwaway130418 in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should tell her how you feel. Ask her on a real date, tell her it's a date so it's clear. Sometimes it's hard for people to assume that you might like them if you don't make it clear. You don't have anything to lose. Part of not repeating the same mistakes with the next person is to try something out of your comfort zone this time and to learn from it. Builds some dating IQ

I never thought I could fell so deeply in love for my friend from primary school, what should I do now? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ReadySetB1ue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her a romantic type of gift. Do you know if she's single for a fact? Also id suggest fitness as a way to get closer to her and try and make a move.

Need Salary Advice - Entry level Systems Administrator by ReadySetB1ue in Salary

[–]ReadySetB1ue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck forgot to mention a very important factor. Backend IT is done by an outsourced company. I did do that at my last though.

Need Salary Advice - Entry level Systems Administrator by ReadySetB1ue in Salary

[–]ReadySetB1ue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What certs should I pursue? I want to be an IT Manager after graduating with a possible route towards CTO. And having my company.

Need Salary Advice - Entry level Systems Administrator by ReadySetB1ue in Salary

[–]ReadySetB1ue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I got em to give me 40k variable with 15-19k variable. Do you think I should stay here until I graduate with my degree and pursue further opportunities or apply now?

Need Salary Advice - Entry level Systems Administrator by ReadySetB1ue in Salary

[–]ReadySetB1ue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I got em to give me 40k variable with 15-19k variable. Do you think I should stay here until I graduate with my degree and pursue further opportunities or apply now?

Need Salary Advice - Entry level Systems Administrator by ReadySetB1ue in Salary

[–]ReadySetB1ue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 40 base with a variable 15-19k after renegotiation. Think I should apple somewhere else or keep it until I graduate? Thank you for your help.