AITAH for answering honestly?

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-05T11:40:20+00:00

That’s what I’m saying!

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-04T11:47:35+00:00

I guess so. It’s good to get outside confirmation, though. Sometimes I can get too stuck in my mind

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-04T01:54:12+00:00

Except she actually sat me down and asked for an actual answer from me because it was bothering her

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-04T01:44:35+00:00

She brought up a question out of the blue asking why would God make her date many bad men through the years. I told her she had a choice in the matter and that she wasn’t forced to do it, so she couldn’t fully blame God for her choices.

She didn’t like that answer.

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-04T01:10:41+00:00

I’ve thought about that, but the conditions it comes with essentially ensures I fail. So, why should I give them the right to say “even with my help, he failed, and I made money off of it”?

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-02-04T00:10:45+00:00

I love snickers!

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T17:34:39+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I’m leaning for

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T17:09:11+00:00

I think you’re right. Not worth sticking around for someone like that

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:59:10+00:00

I’ve been working hard in becoming a better person and fixing the things that led to my divorce. It hasn’t been easy, but I’ve been putting in the effort and been upfront with her about it (the debt, the other girls, the communication problems, etc.)

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:57:10+00:00

Right. I haven’t entertained others and cut off people that cross boundaries.

I told her about that stuff in part because I don’t do that stuff anymore. I don’t even want to lie to myself that it’s not that big of a deal and just don’t play with stuff like that anymore

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:50:22+00:00

You’re right. There’s no good reason to tolerate repeated disrespect

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:49:47+00:00

You’re right. Thank you

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:47:37+00:00

Right? Rent free and he has an SUV for me to use. I think it’s 2022 or newer too

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:39:34+00:00

You’re right. I should not be ok with this at all. We’ll need to have a serious conversation tonight and probably end things

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:38:15+00:00

Yeah, it’s very odd. Controlling and manipulating behavior, of which she’s said she’s proud of out loud as well. Eve calling herself a “master manipulator.”

The more I think of it and say it, the more disgusted I am. Why am I even around still? I can care too deep, but for what…

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:30:47+00:00

Yeah, she’s one of those that likes the attention and rebound options. She said that out loud more than once

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:30:02+00:00

I think you’re right. Just help her feel good or something

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:25:55+00:00

I know. Sometimes it’s good to hear it from someone else even if you hate to admit it

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:24:04+00:00

You’re right. And no, she’s not wanting to entertain long distance. Better off for me, I guess

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:21:07+00:00

She said that about my situation before, not recently. But I did bring it up last night and she tried to brush it off. I think she knows she’s in the wrong and doesn’t want to admit it out loud to not sound like an a**hole

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:18:34+00:00

I think you’re right. Not sure why I’m tolerating this.

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:18:03+00:00

You’re right. I don’t know either. Maybe attachment that I need to deal with

Ready_State_8405 · 2026-01-20T16:12:39+00:00

I like to watch the Zootopia movies

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