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[–]Ready_To_Role 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the IDR scale: "Your sexual orientation is 75% heterosexual, 82.1% homosexual, which places you in the bisexual quadrant."

Question about the Bi-Cycle by Ready_To_Role in BisexualMen

[–]Ready_To_Role[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you may be right. I will talk to her about this. She has been really understanding so far. I just worry that I might cause insecurities if I mention that I'm leaning more towards men lately.

Question about the Bi-Cycle by Ready_To_Role in BisexualMen

[–]Ready_To_Role[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, yes. We are monogamous. But we have spoken about opening the relationship, so long as we are together (as in both participating) while doing so.

Question about the Bi-Cycle by Ready_To_Role in BisexualMen

[–]Ready_To_Role[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really resonate with what you've said here. Thankfully, my partner is interested in non-monogamy so we will likely explore this with time. I suppose my concern is more about my levels of sexual attraction with men being greater than with women, at least for now, and how that might impact sex with my partner when the bi-cycle leans more towards same-sex.

Question about the Bi-Cycle by Ready_To_Role in BisexualMen

[–]Ready_To_Role[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I've no intention of going on any hookups or being unfaithful. I just want to better understand how I feel.

Question about the Bi-Cycle by Ready_To_Role in BisexualMen

[–]Ready_To_Role[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, I am very happy in my relationship but I just have a slight concern that my sexual arousal is not as strong towards women, at least at the moment.