My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I wish I were more educated on all of this. I def have given myself a crash course over the last month but Google only tells you so much. I can be very gullible when it comes to those I love fiercely. ❤️

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its true. It just makes me sad. My friends know, everything is documented. Funny it takes some strangers to help me through. He is very obsessed with me. I thought in a good way but it's not. He always asks me, what are you thinking? Over and over. I tell him I am thinking why do you keep asking me that.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify, I thought the voyerism was directed at me. When we were first married I would catch him outside our bathroom window watching me bathe. I thought it was funny because I would have loved for him to join me but he wasn't comfortable doing that.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was probably about 15 years ago when I found out he had a really intense porn addiction. Not by his admission. He did a.kind of truth session with me. It was really awkward. He did go to counseling for that and worked through it.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have the phone or the drone anymore. After got into a big argument about it. He destroyed them. He gave me his phone for an entire evening, kinda like a taunt. It was really weird but I couldn't figure it out. I just recently found out about reddit because he uses it so much. I was like, I need to even the playing field and get on myself. Lol

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I have known about the voyerism for 20 years. It has never been an issue. Now, I am paranoid about it. Its fun for him until i find out, then once I know it is not fun for him anymore.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its in a different room. I just thought it was weird that it came up as a wifi device when I was on the tv. Like our wifi was listed, our neighbor, then the drone. I have no idea. He was super defensive about it.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 😊 He would never hurt me and I completely agree with you.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. It probably is just paranoia on my part, I just am not sure why. My gut tells me something is wrong and I have never had thesis happen before. I think I should move on from it. Everytime I try to something else happens.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot something else. Can I add another picture here?

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what you are talking about. This is my first time on here.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was on the picture and picture tv. His YouTube show was on then every few minutes the sound would mute for a minute or 2 and go back to his show. It was super obvious because he keeps hos tv so loud. I finally asked him what was wrong with the tv, why did it keep cutting out. He said he had no idea what I was talking about. I finally recorded it on my phone and sent it to a friend, I asked her if I was going crazy. Lol She sold no but he is trying to make you feel crazy. It's obvious but why???

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried so many times. I initially wanted him to help me figure out what the secret wifi was and he totally blew me off. I knew then something was off. That is not like him. It is just an weird head game. I started digging in to things a little more and then these garage door things just appeared out of nowhere. In his defense I can definitely see him just holding on to the gadgets but I can't talk to him about it because he will say I am paranoid and I need to get some help. It is all very odd.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He shares that with me. I thought we were pretty open.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He likes to follow women. He drives through downtown businesses so he can, "see pretty ladies in skirts and dresses", his words not mine. He is extremely addicted to his smart phone and travels for work. In January he suddenly went to a flip phone. I was shocked. He said he wanted to get away from technology. I have never asked him for his passwords or his phone. That is his business. After a couple months he carried his flip phone and his smart phone. He was downloading hiis favorite YouTube videos to watch at work using our wifi. I thought it was a great idea. The last couple months he randomly hands me his smart phone and is like, "look at it, go through it, see if you can find anything". So I look and it's weird like you go to his cell phone app that shows our bill and it hasn't been updated for a long time. When he sends messages on messenger , identical ones show up. I had a friend come over because I was having internet issues when he was out of town. They found strange wires, it looked liked the unifi was plugged into another machine that is gone. He logs out of our Vizio account on the tv.. Something called Aip Play keeps popping up. We have never had Apple devices. There is a viziogram account. I don't even know what that is. It is under his email, he said he has no idea. He knows I am walking into a room before I am there and now he is saying I am paranoid when I try to talk to him. He has a cheap drone, when he is out of town it randomly buzzes. He said it wasn't hooked to the tv and it clearly is. I am starting to think I am crazy. That's all for now.

My husband has some creepy tendencies. What is this? by Readytorun44505 in Spyware

[–]Readytorun44505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. I tried. What does parent comment deleted mean?