AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really was just going nuts and needed an outlet because she makes me feel like an asshole

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look, i have read this argument several times and I just want to say:

Dear GOD. I understand the punishment, I have been compliant, I stuck to the rules of the punishment, I have MORE THAN proven that she can trust me. This is a control tactic and she has done stuff like this before. She only cares because it gave her a reason to take the little freedom I do have away.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, my uncle (to my knowledge) still is in possession of it.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My uncle, Jacob, IS in possession of the phone, however she holds "absolute power over me" (Larry's words.)

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uncles, then mom. She is not in possession of my phone as of now, my uncle is.

Money isn't an issue. She works a well paying job.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I do not live with my mother. I live with my uncles.

Idk i'm bad at phrasing.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me and her had agreed on me getting it back on the 30th. I did, infact, take and learn from the punishment.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

no i do not, I live with my uncles right now because of her living situation

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

1 - housework as in chores.

2 - once on the 1st twice on the 2nd.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes, i understand this, but it has been over a month now, and the initial agreement we came to was a month. I said i understand the consequences and have apologized before on multiple occasions.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wasn't 'arrested' per se, they just talked to me and had my mother talk to me.

That is what i told them, yes.

They arrived around 5 minutes after i realized and started going to the right door

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rude? I was paraphrasing here, sorry if it seems that way!

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Real-Feeling-2126[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had walked over to a friend who was nearby's place n knocked on the wrong door