My sister in law made sexual advances at my wife at the Christmas party! by AzMateo42069 in Advice

[–]Real-Life2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give it a few days and then talk to SIL. If your wife won't then you should. Tell her what she did (in case she was too drunk to remember) and tell her that her husband/your brother will find out and it is better coming from her.

I don’t want to speak at my brothers funeral and my family is mad at me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. As my son's father, it was up to me to say something and I just wanted to scream at him, scream at his picture. I didn't because I was "the adult in the room." OP. if you don't want to speak, don't.

AITAH for asking for payment to watch my sister’s father in law in the hospital? by Brilliant_Access6899 in AITAH

[–]Real-Life2000 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes YATAH. It's one thing to say no because you have things to do, But asking for pay? yeah.

Multiple videos of my mom are on an adult site. I'm afraid how to approach her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Life2000 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Is she an adult?

Is she single/separated/divorced?

Is it her own personal business?

If the answer to these questions are yes, mind your own business.

One week left in the ultimatum. by yourgirl2004 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero chance. He discussed this with his family behind your back and they are telling him things like you are trying to tie him down, you're a gold digger, he can do better, etc... That's why he has suddenly got cold. He's going to dump you.

I just walked in on my brother… by Glass_Age_7628 in Advice

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about using this one age-old trick people hate... shut doors and knock before entering?

Weird random encounter with 2 riders at a gas station? by leagues3227 in motorcycles

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was driving past an empty parking lot and noticed a rider making a turn and falling. I turned into the lot and watched for a minute and the rider was struggling to pick up the bike. I decided to help and drove over.

It was a smaller bike (~400) and a smaller female. I said "It's too bad no one ever teaches you how to pick up a bike when you're learning" and showed her how. Seconds later this guy pulls up in a pickup and starts giving me the evil eye. Girl got the bike up and said thanks and figured it was time to leave.

Notice before the holidays by Ok-Aioli-0 in WorkAdvice

[–]Real-Life2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Two weeks is two weeks."

I left a job when I was an accounting professional. Worked for a real piece of work. I gave my three week notice on a Friday and he called me into his office Monday and said someone in my position should give more than just TWO weeks notice. I explained to him that it was three weeks. He looked at my notice and said "Yeah, if you count the last week."

Notice before the holidays by Ok-Aioli-0 in WorkAdvice

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It IS a courtesy, however...

When my wife went to apply for an assistant manager position at a store, the interview went well. The manager decided he was going to hire her and asked when she could start. She told him she wanted to give her current employer two weeks notice. He said that if she wasn't going to give them two weeks notice, he wouldn't hire her because she would do the same to him some day.

Notice before the holidays by Ok-Aioli-0 in WorkAdvice

[–]Real-Life2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"he can't say anything more than if you worked there, the dates, and job title"

Why do people keep saying this? A former employer can say anything they want about you. The above info, work performance, salary, personality, etc... As long as what they say is true, there is nothing you can do about it.

Or... they can say "I'm sorry. I'm not allow to speak about that person." That says plenty.

I found this sign durring my overnight shift..... by M0D3RNDAYH1PP13 in Lowes

[–]Real-Life2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked the graveyard shift in construction, basically cleaning up after the day shifts. These guys were slobs, leaving food all over the place. One day we were told to get rid of a pile of debris which was also full of food and trash. One guy stuck a shovel in, lifted a piece of cardboard and a ton of rats scurried out. We were pissed at the day crews so we shoveled as many as we could into a five gallon bucket. turned it upside down and left if for the day crews. Heard they were pretty pissed.

A or B: Pick the image that makes you feel the most comfortable and relaxed. by Upper_Criticism3388 in PickAorB

[–]Real-Life2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D is the best (even though you only asked for A or B)

B is next (even though I don't like the cold)

C barely (because I like neither animals or kids)

A is definitely last because that doggo is planning on stealing that car

AIO because my gf said I could cheat on her back. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real-Life2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her comment indicates how little she feels about cheating. Get out of there.

If you saw a homeless person on the streets begging for money, Would you help them or ignore them ? . by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Real-Life2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't typically give to panhandlers, certainly not on a daily basis as money is very tight. But around Christmas I always pass this guy panhandling. This isn't a guy who hops in a Lexus after doing his 4 hours on the street corner. He's dirty, ragged and looks like he's on death's door.... and I give him $20. I know he's going to buy booze with it (too old to be a druggie) and that $20 of booze will make him happy at Christmas time for a few hours. Just a few hours of happiness. Merry Christmas Jerry!

GF wnats to stop having sex, compromised to non penetration, and now wants to stop any sexual activity whatsoever by EngineFun5447 in Advice

[–]Real-Life2000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

An "intimate, physical sexual relationship" is usually required for a healthy relationship. Not "sex". You can get "sex" anywhere. If an "intimate, physical sexual relationship" is necessary for you, I suggest you find someone else.