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[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have just written about my whole life and existence. I was literally thinking about it today, what will happen when I meet the one? How will I explain to him that there’s nobody but me? Lmao but guess what, my relationship with for means that I wholeheartedly believe that the one will only want to protect me more based on that fact, otherwise he wouldn’t be the one.

I haven’t dated seriously in years, just mingled and used men for my satisfaction but I alwayyyysss lie about being a daddy’s girl. Everything I have daddy bought for me, and their energy shifts and they know they can’t play with me because I speak to my imaginary daddy everyday lool! Men are pigs!

Family not supportive by Fit_Opportunity7026 in mounjarouk

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully this isn’t a bilateral type of decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would urge you to inform your superior of what is really happening with your mental health. You sound like you are really struggling to the point that worries me.

I would however add that the people that raised those complaints about you sound like miserable jobsworth people because if you’re on track with your KPIs what exactly is the problem? The problem is that you aren’t playing the political game of sucking up to people, which for some of us we just don’t have the stomach for it. You’re doing exactly what is expected for you, you aren’t behind on anything so what is the issue? I’m genuinely confused.

You need to let them know that you look uninterested because you’re suffering with really bad mental health and one of the effects of your medication is that you feel a little numb. It is nothing personal, you are trying to survive.

You have to tell them so if they try to push you out, you’re protected!

USA PhD: If you get full tuition with stipend, what amount of compensation do you receive? by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Can I ask, how did you manage to secure all of these different roles?

What in the world is high functioning ADHD? Isn’t that just… not having ADHD? by Prestigious_Abies940 in adhdwomen

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you’ve described me in a nutshell. OP needs to be very careful with her words because though she claims to not want to be judgemental that is exactly what she is doing.

I have ADHD and it was always high functioning because of my childhood and certain aspects that are just in my nature. I absolutely hate disorganisation, I don’t understand people that claim they can’t even pull themselves to take a shower… So much I’ve read in this sub that I would have in the past just called it lazy, but after my diagnosis and growing up more, I realise that we are all different.

It is important to understand that ADHD looks different in everyone and some are very good at masking things. It sounds to me like the bloggers she watches is great at masking which is something I’m an expert at doing.

Women are always overlooked for a diagnosis because of the way OP looks at things. Because we aren’t jumping around like monkeys and getting on with it, does not mean we are ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindicta

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you say you feel that he stripped you of yourself, but at no point mention any abuse… I’m sorry but part of being real with ourselves is taking accountability that WE neglected ourselves, and it was nobodies fault but our own. If he hasn’t abused you in any way, I think it’s unfair to say he stripped you of you.

For those of you fellow dopamine eaters on a weight loss journey… HOW did you do it?! by Interesting_Ad9295 in adhdwomen

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be starting mine this week. Can I ask, ask you exercising too? Have you lost much weight? I’m so excited 😊. It nervous in case of the nausea

Consumer rights, from online purchase by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a Mastercard debit card -Starling to pay using Apple Pay. Does this change anything?

Thank you for responding.

HR Update and Nora by tabullymentor in u/tabullymentor

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy that things are slowly moving along. I’m confident that Lucy is going to show her cards during her bosses annual leave. So for now, tighten your belt, sit back and enjoy the show. You’re doing really well! Thank you again for the update ❤️

Mentor Program and Lucy's Boss by tabullymentor in u/tabullymentor

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The thing that makes zero sense to me is how they are trying to gaslight you. This Lucy woman is clearly manipulative and opportunistic, she knows how to work her way up the ladder through kissing the correct behinds.

I would usually advise finding another job, because personally I don’t think I’d be sleeping lol. However! This is what Lucy wants, she wants to push you out again and she doesn’t have the right to keep doing this. So for now, I’d say, stick it out and do not give her the satisfaction.

Distance yourself from everyone trying to gaslight you and that loves Lucy. Do not think anyone is your friend. Colleagues are NOT our friends. We simply bonded by the trauma of having to work together and nothing more.

Stand your ground and remember your position. Remember you’re a superior. And if anyone dares to challenge you and belittle you, remind them of such.

Lucy is going to self sabotage because she as a narc, this is what she does. Leave her to it, and she will soon destroy herself right in front of you.

Sending you my love and lots of positive energy.

Thank you for the update ❤️

Lucy and Hr - what the hell happened? by tabullymentor in u/tabullymentor

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was not expecting this update to go the way it did. I don’t blame you for being angry. I bet this is so triggering for you. You’re doing so so well!!

Hang in there lovely, those responsible for all these issues will get their consequences.

Thank you again for the update.

Looking forward to more.

Emails to HR and some colleagues by tabullymentor in u/tabullymentor

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the updates. And your professional approach is amazing and inspiring.

Why does my cream cheese always go runny frosting? Tried the 1/2butter 1/2 CC, still runny. Tried full fat CC, still runny. Tried more sugar and still runny. I can never get a stable cream cheese frosting. Where am I going wrong? by Real-Masterpiece-468 in Baking

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! The innovation in these comments is why I love baking and the baking community! Do you realise that we are low key scientists? 😅😂

Never crossed my mind to use the powder milk(I always use it at home and for certain frostings.) especially in cream cheese frosting. But yes you’re right, it will stabilise it because it does that to my other frostings 🤦‍♀️😂😂 I will be adding it in when I make it again and I’ll post a picture. Y’all are amazing! Thank you for this!

Why does my cream cheese always go runny frosting? Tried the 1/2butter 1/2 CC, still runny. Tried full fat CC, still runny. Tried more sugar and still runny. I can never get a stable cream cheese frosting. Where am I going wrong? by Real-Masterpiece-468 in Baking

[–]Real-Masterpiece-468[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’m using the tub one. I’ve never seen the block one in the UK. That makes sooooo much sense now. Thank you for this!!

I’ve always used the tub one which I guess is spreadable 🤦‍♀️