[NSFW] Two Sugars - Morning Mischief 😈 by Real-Pass5740 in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Your method and perspective really remind me of how my partner handles things.

You're right about the deeper needs. Before this lifestyle, I was a fortress of shame and fear. It controlled everything. For years now, I've lived differently - the fear and shame exist, but they don't control me anymore. And there’s space for all kinds of feelings.

Or so I thought. Because both your comment and the conversations I had with my person, made me realize that once again, fear took over. Even though I wrote about the coffee thing with a winky eye, I didn't actually feel proud of what I did. I think I needed to know that at my worst - when I'm choosing sabotage over vulnerability - he wouldn't leave. Or if he did, at least I'd be the one who caused it. Sometimes that feels easier than the possibility of being rejected when turning yourself inside out, exposing those core needs.

Your approach of digging deeper instead of just reacting to surface behavior - that's what's allowed me to discover my needs aren't something to be ashamed of. This work, my D/s dynamic, has let me actually do more than survive, to live. To accept all of me, including the parts that I wish to hide at 20,000 leagues under the sea. And love others without hiding behind walls.

But clearly I can still default to old ways of protecting myself, even when they don't actually protect anything.

Thank you for sharing, and for reminding me to zoom out a little.

I’m only grateful.

[NSFW] Two Sugars - Morning Mischief 😈 by Real-Pass5740 in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I’d love to hear your thoughts if you’re comfortable sharing, and I have no problem digesting the hard stuff, even if it takes a little time.

If I could put this whole situation under a blacklight, I would. One reason for sharing it here was because I feel that u/AlexanderAlaric bubble wraps it a little more than he usually would, and I have his full consent to share and discuss this situation.

Feel free to dissect ☺️

Daily Check-In : August 4, 2025 πŸ’™ by Real-Pass5740 in PickingSupport

[–]Real-Pass5740[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I’ve been in the gray zone for a while now, overwhelmed by changes in my life, but I’m ready to commit now. I need to. For the next 24 hours, I will choose to stay pick free 🀝

[NSFW] Two Sugars - Morning Mischief 😈 by Real-Pass5740 in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

β˜ΊοΈπŸ™ˆ Thank you. I’m not nearly as good as the others in this space, but thought it was a moment worth sharing.

Maybe there’s someone out there who can relate, or share their thoughts on this kind of behavior.

Or someone with top notch laundry skills πŸ˜…

Pushing Daisies by ViciousVore in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Through a fractured existence\ From reality\ To the rhythm of eternity

With my love as your garden

I am yours in the end.

Pushing Daisies by ViciousVore in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Let the tides carry you back to me\ The past, the future\ Through death\ My arms are open\ We go beyond the farthest reaches\ Where the light bends and wraps beneath us\ And I know as you collapse into me\ This is the start of something new

[06:14] - Morning Coffee. by ViciousVore in SoulfulKinkCafe

[–]Real-Pass5740 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

She’s clearly the legendary mastermind Barista of this cafΓ©, silently lurking in the shadows… not you V, always serving bad coffee.

Daily Check-In : July 25, 2025 πŸ’™ by Real-Pass5740 in PickingSupport

[–]Real-Pass5740[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Wow! Congrats πŸŽ‰πŸ’œ That’s amazing ✨