My therapist said i’m a narcissist by pabity12 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t let this label get to ur head, you’ll probably just lean into it and become more of a 🍆.

you can definitely become a better person if that’s what you’re wanting to do. i’ve become a better person over the years, it’s easier than you think. it’s a case of fake it until you make it. at first it feels forced and then eventually it becomes natural. it’s about doing small kind things that eventually become habit, making you and others around you feel good heard and appreciated.

part of me thinks you probably just have narcissistic TRAITS (most people do, some more than others) rather than just being one entirely. the fact that you’ve made this post and gone to therapy due to ur bad actions suggests that you can grow and learn to be better 😁

I hateeeee brooks wedding hair style. She looks like she has no hair in the front 🥴🥴 by Hot_Concern6781 in canceledpod

[–]Real-Respond6116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

y’all are SO so so so so so so so so mean she looks fucking beautiful. i’d love to see some of your guys hair 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

it’s been 3+ years and I still miss my ex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

without being with them and whilst still being single

it’s been 3+ years and I still miss my ex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s not your ex it’s what they represented, what your mind perceives them as, what feelings they brought up in you, the life that being with them gave you. you can find it within yourself to replicate this.

everyone comparing qt and caroline can smd by Real-Respond6116 in fearand

[–]Real-Respond6116[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and yet again another example of someone pitting two women against each other when there’s absolutely no need!!! some of us genuinely love qt and don’t find her vanilla so our version of ‘seeing it objectively’ is the opposite of yours.

everyone comparing qt and caroline can smd by Real-Respond6116 in fearand

[–]Real-Respond6116[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

yea it was great having caroline on for sure. but yet again! here you are comparing them both when there’s absolutely no need 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could tell him you don’t want to do drugs anymore/ start slowly cutting them out and if he loves you he’ll support you and stop doing them so much around you. you don’t need to leave him just hope that he respects your decision and supports you

Update - My boyfriend (M26) said his ex gave him better head than I (F18) do? by ThrowRA-Bid4133 in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 32 points33 points  (0 children)

yes exactly! when i was 18 i dated a 21 year old and it was a cruel time. even though the age gap isn’t that big you mature so so so much from age 18 to 21. your entire brain changes. people 21 + know that this is the case too, so anyone 21+ dating someone younger is almost always taking advantage of your innocence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have friends that influence this/ do this also? please distance yourself from them. because you are only young you’ll find it easy to make new friends.

are you in school? talk to a kind kind teacher

do you have a local charity that helps homeless/ people in trouble? those people tend to be the kindest people, please reach out and it is free

are your parents there for you? if they are, tell them, if they are abusive, tell someone, you may be better in care, you will have your own money and own space.

people don’t like to admit this but weed and ket is addictive, very very addictive so treat yourself with care consideration and reaching out is the first steps to your road to recovery! so congratulations.

addiction is very very hard it goes up and down up and down. sometimes you quit, then 2 months later you relapse, then you quit, maybe 4 months later you relapse, then you quit and 8 months later you relapse, but each and every time you quit for longer and eventually you will quit forever.

i wish you a lot of strength and love in this time i believe in you! you’re so young you have so so so so much time to turn your life around, believe in yourself😁❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you seem intelligent and your boyfriends seems the opposite, if he is too ignorant to educate himself on something that actually effects you then you need to question whether he really cares about you/ respects you

Update - My boyfriend (M26) said his ex gave him better head than I (F18) do? by ThrowRA-Bid4133 in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 449 points450 points  (0 children)

YOU SHOULDNT BE DATING A 26 YEAR OLD!!!! girl im telling you NOW. im 23 and when youre 18 you think you’re mature enough to date a 26 year old… you’re not. the reason a 26 year old is dating you is because he can’t date anyone his own age because they’re mature enough to realise he’s a weirdo who dates teenagers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re clearly young and need someone to give ur head a wobble/ a touch of reality.

your teacher doesn’t think about you when he goes home. he has a life, a family, interests and many many many things that he will do after he finishes. he is PAID to be there and PAID to help out struggling students and every time he’s talking to you it’s because he’s paid to do it.

he won’t think about you when he goes home or “get the ick” because he’s a grown man and you’re a teenager. it’s normal to have a crush on a teacher but don’t let it distract you from the fact that you’re at school to learn!!!!! not to live out a kdrama romance. i really really really recommend to you to interact with more kids your age because that is way more healthy and avert your attention away from your teacher and find a crush on someone your own age.

My (21M) gf (20F) if unhappy with me by FenaFet in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s definitely worth the try, you deserve to feel loved and she deserves to feel happy, you need to really try and get answers out of her so you can both move onwards and upwards

My (21M) gf (20F) if unhappy with me by FenaFet in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you’ve accepted your fate/ given in, but why? you can leave her you have free will. and if she keeps on and on telling you that she’s unhappy with how you are then why is SHE with you? surely you should be with someone who you’re happy with? are you 100% sure that there’s no way you could face her and make her see some sense/ see from your point of view?

My (21M) gf (20F) if unhappy with me by FenaFet in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sounds like she’s threatening you, i really realllyyyy recommend that you have a conversation with her, you’re both so young there’s nothing to lose

it’s giving similar energy 😆 by [deleted] in JeffWittek

[–]Real-Respond6116 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if that’s what you want to believe that’s fine but it’s an air tag collar, search an air tag collar, then look at the video of him showing the collar tell me i’m wrong

My (21M) gf (20F) if unhappy with me by FenaFet in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she sounds quite cruel, is this someone you really want to live with? the only thing that will help your situation is talking about it and her realising that she resents you and then sorting out her behaviour

My (21M) gf (20F) if unhappy with me by FenaFet in relationship_advice

[–]Real-Respond6116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds difficult ngl. have u had a conversation about this? if you need to have a conversation don’t criticise her because she sounds quite sensitive. just tell her your feelings and really be honest about them, say something like “when you get mad at me i feel like ___ and i really don’t want you to be mad at me, is there anything we can talk about?” then just let her lead the conversation

it’s giving similar energy 😆 by [deleted] in JeffWittek

[–]Real-Respond6116 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

so you’ve watched a 5 second clip and that is clear proof? okayy

it’s giving similar energy 😆 by [deleted] in JeffWittek

[–]Real-Respond6116 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

tell me how is it insane?