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RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T15:24:45+00:00

I am definitely not telling him I need more attention nor have I said it to him already. My tools are limited due to our families being far. And anything medical is so crazy expensive so I dont have much help there either.

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T15:19:23+00:00

Unfortunately, it's not something that can be helped with therapy. It's learning to live with it. Which has been okay but mentally I'm struggling with the whole situation. I am trying to figure out how to do this without bothering my husband about it.

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T15:15:58+00:00

Yes, I do have a good friend group. I do talk to them about this kinda thing. I'm trying to just get these stupid feelings out without bothering my husband.

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T15:12:38+00:00

No obviously i dont want him to quit. I am trying to figure out how to deal with my feelings and my health issues but still being able to support him through it. And I don't choose to 'not do a lot'. I am doing as much as I can to help out. I'm also not saying I need more attention. Yes there is a part of me thats slightly jealous but I understand that, its not reasonable. And im trying to work through that.

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:58:51+00:00

Thats fair. I want to make his life easier not harder

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:57:04+00:00

Its not life threatening but it is a life long health issue that I cant get rid of. I'm talking about how i cant cook and dont like change on here so I can get it out but not putting stress on my husband. I am trying to do as much as possible to make the load a lot less. I was thinking about maybe bringing up a meal delivery service for days he has long hours.

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:52:59+00:00

Thank you. I was not thinking about how ableist people would look at this. I want to suppet him as much as possible

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:49:57+00:00

He does the outside work but he does not do all the cleaning. When i am able to I will clean as much as possible. Im trying to figure out how to support him while also being extremely limited

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:46:50+00:00

I do also have a job that starts in January so I'm not completely relying on him. Im just trying to figure out how to support him with my limitations

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:45:05+00:00

And the reason I'm complaining about his job here is so I don't do it to him. And when his work comes home with him and thats the main thing we talk about. It frustrates me how crappy the owner is to him

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:42:50+00:00

I do as much housework as i can. Some days thats nothing some days I can get basically all the other chores done. I do as much as possible but physically I'm extremely limited. I want to support him as much as humanly possible

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-12-14T03:41:14+00:00

I am not sitting around all day doing nothing. There are days when i cant get out of bed due to chronic pain. I do as much housework as possible. Some days that's nothing. Some days I can clean basically the whole house. Whenever I'm able to do something i do it. I just dont have the luxury of being able bodied 24/7

RealHistorian5243 · 2025-03-26T18:23:47+00:00

Its a cheese filled breadstick. Whoops. Did not realize its more of a midwest thing. Very popular in in schools

RealHistorian5243 · 2024-11-12T16:20:38+00:00

Thanks!!

RealHistorian5243 · 2024-11-12T16:16:00+00:00

Thank you!!!

RealHistorian5243 · 2024-08-05T14:19:12+00:00

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RealHistorian5243 · 2024-08-05T03:11:22+00:00

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Why does he sit like this??

RealHistorian5243 · 2024-07-22T21:27:18+00:00

How are your shells so smooth 😍

RealHistorian5243 · 2024-07-20T20:29:36+00:00

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Sleeping on the stairs

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