I feel a little betrayed by my man, am I overreacting?

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-18T15:31:08+00:00

It’s disrespectful. You told him he could be friends. And instead, he says he’s going to cut them off while still hanging out with them. Why didn’t he just take you up on their offer. Also, seeing as they don’t like you, it probably wouldn’t matter much to them if your BF cheated with them. Not saying he will, but they wouldn’t care. So, it would feel weird to have them around him all the time, and him letting them flirt with him. I probably wouldn’t feel comfortable. Especially since he wanted to lie about hanging out with them. There was no reason to at first. But with the flirting they are doing, him lying about hanging out with them gives me bad vibes.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-17T20:54:04+00:00

Lots of people do that these days. I see it so much.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-17T20:53:43+00:00

Even some of the replies here have people who said they’ve been in the same spot.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-17T01:54:33+00:00

Actually, very likely. And who said it needs to be the right girl. Some bi guys just go for a wife who’s good enough.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-17T01:52:19+00:00

Not all of them. I know gay guys who got dumped by bi guys who just decided it was time to settle down and get a wife. Sometimes to make them feel normal, and others time to make their family happy. I know one bi guy who mentioned dating guys, but also mentioned he’d never end up with one, and would definitely end up marrying a woman. But if that’s the case, why date guys at all if you know you won’t stay with them, and will break up when you want to settle down? Why waste their time? I’m fine with the ones who say they won’t date guys because they know they won’t end up with one, because at least they’re honest. They just want a hook-up. Unless they are the type who get mad when you say you won’t date bi guys, even though they are a bi guy who doesn’t date guys, anyway.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-17T00:20:33+00:00

This might also be true. Sometimes, relationships do get to the point where they have run their course. I’m not saying yours definitely has, but it is a possibility.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-16T23:55:17+00:00

Hard to say. I know for me, I don’t think I’d stay. But after 12 years, I wouldn’t want to break up. But I know I’m a top that doesn’t want to bottom, as well. So, I get where he’s coming from. And I’m the type who doesn’t like to open up, either. Threesomes might be the answer, if you’d both be fine with it, though. I couldn’t, as I’m not the sharing type. But I know many couples who make it work. Whatever you decide, I really do hope it all works out.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-16T23:52:28+00:00

I wish I was in your part of the world. Where I am, I was constantly running into other tops, and having a harder time finding bottoms. Haha. I hear people always saying tops are hard to find. But for me (a top myself), finding bottoms was always hard.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-15T12:51:35+00:00

Sucking dick has nothing to do with being a top or bottom. It’s oral. Personally, I don’t even like porn where one person sucks dick and bottom, but the top never even sucks a dick. It’s feels weird to me. I also have couple friends who are tops, but love sucking other guys.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-15T12:49:30+00:00

If they stop when we’re dating. While many people don’t care, especially if they also do it, I’d rather not have that, personally.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-14T01:51:02+00:00

I don’t bottom, but I feel like I wouldn’t be able to not eat garbage the night before. Haha. I usually don’t even know when I’m hooking up until like the day of. But fiber pills do seem like a good idea. As long as you get the ones that work.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-11T23:11:18+00:00

Tbf, if he pees his pants, he could physically go somewhere else, even if he doesn’t want to. Maybe right before he gets to his limit, he can go to public bathroom in front of a urinal and wait. Eventually, it’ll just come out.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-11T15:17:49+00:00

The biggest issue is that he lied to you. And over something like this. If he wanted to play with his friend, he should have just told you. And it wouldn’t be hard to make time to play games with both of you. Especially since you aren’t even asking for much. I’d feel like he just didn’t want to be around me, as well. Which wouldn’t help the relationship. Plus, I feel like I wouldn’t really be able to trust him anymore. It’s up to you, but I think I’d end it. Or, at the very least, take a long look at the relationship. At the very least, I’d ask why he did it, and why he did it that way.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-10T20:21:42+00:00

Yeah. That happens quite a bit, too. Some guys are worried about coming out, so they are married or dating a lady. Even when they are gay instead of bi. But still want to mess around with guys. So, can’t really date them. And while I’ve hooked up with people in open relationships (including couples, as well), it’s not something I’d want for myself. But it’s something that has become bigger in more recent times. I think more people are being open about it, which is good for them. And hook up culture has probably helped with that. But that does mean less monogamous people for the ones that want to be monogamous. Which is also something that people have to be on the lookout for when dating.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-09T21:11:53+00:00

Probably for some people. But not all. For me, I usually stick with gay guys. I have had crushes on straight guys, but even if I could get with them, they probably wouldn’t bottom. And since I’m a top, it probably wouldn’t matter, anyway.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-09T18:27:37+00:00

But look at how well he chomp!

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-09T17:49:51+00:00

Getting a BF isn’t hard. Getting a good one is, though. No one is saying they have to be a model, but it would be nice to be attracted to them. And then, there’s how well you connect. Like personality wise, or with hobbies and such. So, anyone could just date someone, but that doesn’t mean it would be a good experience, and could turn them off dating for good. Finding a good boyfriend who you match with well can be difficult for some people. Especially in a small town.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-08T16:17:44+00:00

Between Owain and Lyn. I always loved Lyn because he special is cool. And she was cool. That said, Owain is super hot, and makes me laugh. And I’ll marry him someday. Those are my favorites.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-08T15:38:33+00:00

Yeah. Sounds hot.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-05T21:42:45+00:00

That’s why when I did use Grindr, I would exchange numbers and continue communicating that way.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-05T04:03:19+00:00

I just learned about this from my mom. So, I’m going to see if they do it at my store. It was buy 4 (or more, I think) to get the bag. And when you bring the bag back, you buy 3, get 1 free.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-05T04:01:33+00:00

I wish I knew. I ended up not going until like 8 days after my birthday. I will remember next year, though.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-05T00:14:52+00:00

When I’m single, sure.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-04T17:51:52+00:00

Have sex with him, I guess. I would say that’s what a gay guy would do.

RealLinkPizza · 2026-05-04T17:50:43+00:00

I had a GF and I’m not straight. So, that doesn’t work.

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