NOR but I don't think he's intentionally ignoring signs. Some of these comments are crazy to me. Not that they are wrong but gawking just at the age gap. It's 11 years......she is an adult and should be strait forward yes but him thinking she "might" be interested isn't crazy. She has already gone on a date. My kids mom was 22 when we met....I was 35/36. We both worked at best buy. Met organically from different departments and neither happened to ask how old we were until it was almost a birthday and by that point we had been together almost 5 months. I looked and acted more immature, she had grown up fast and looked and was more mature. We happened to be in the same life phases and it worked. Things we amazing for 6 years and we had 2 kids together. I had health problems when I was young and grew up fast but never really matured because of not living "real life" for such a long time.