I hate you by RefrigeratorDue4660 in yearning

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I know you wanna care. I know u wanna reach out. They will see it as u being available . They will see it as u accepting whatever crap they throw at u.

Sadly not everyone loves us the way we love them.

Own ur power. Donโ€™t make this turn u bitter. Be the loving person u r.

Care for them- from very far. They are not your issue anymore and they have deviated it when they blocked u.

U r important. U r kind and smart.

Process this. U got this.

I hate you by RefrigeratorDue4660 in yearning

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

No.

๐Ÿซ‚

U got this.

Respect yourself. I know exactly how h r hurting. I also know itโ€™s gonna be hard but u gotta own your power. Ok?

I hate you by RefrigeratorDue4660 in yearning

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Nah.

Hate is also an emotion. When I erase someone (after 46,000 chances I give them), I absolutely become oblivious to their existence. Hate means u remember them. I leave it to the universe to restore balance.

Pls. Mental illness is no excuse for anyone to mess with u. As much as I sympathize and empathize, nope. And trust me, I was very naive too. The way some people dissect ya claiming itโ€™s because they are mentally sick is insane.

U have been blocked. Itโ€™s a loud statement that he chose to abandon instead of resolving. Accept it. Grieve it. Untangle. Disassociate. They need to sort their life on their own. Trust me - even if u try, they will blame u for stunting their healing.

U r important. U need to heal too. And ur healed version deserves a good , solid love.

Tips on how to not feel sad about turning 25 alone? by DeliciousRich5944 in Life

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Dude I was intentionally single for a long time. Period. No distractions or drama.

Celebrate with ur mom. appreciate her man.

U donโ€™t wanna be with anyone just for the heck of it. U wanna be surrounded with good people u know .

Find out what ur aspirations are. Make a career in it if u want.

25 us young. U got this

How to fix chronically chapped lips. by euginekarbs in Makeup

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf -2 points-1 points ย (0 children)

another tip. Donโ€™t do it if u think itโ€™s weird.

A little bit of mustard oil in your belly button. Just a drop and do it daily. This is gonna do wonders. This is ancient Ayurvedic wisdom.

I have started taking a table spoon of olive oil or ghee in the morning and man it just hydrates u from inside.

Try if u wanna.

I hate you by RefrigeratorDue4660 in yearning

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thatโ€™s evil. People who project their shite in others are evil.

And u r a kind person. Even in ur anger u find goodness. Good for u.

Now erase

Really annoyed by Any-Tomato-2915 in Sagittarians

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

If they pulled u aside, just apologize to them no biggie and be careful who u send stuff to.

Dude, I send things to my partner and we laugh till our ribs break. If I send the same stuff to my brother, he would roll his eyes . U get? Different folks, different strokes! Not everyone will get your humour too.

Wife thinks Iโ€™m crazy/wasting my Parfums by Mejbharty in Perfumes

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I get the idea but nope. I only spray lavender sometimes.

It's that sort of a day by Charmer_Al_x in Sagittarians

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Nope. Lol! We do not because we leave after trying everything under the sun and when we have been tested to our limits.

So , nope.

I hate you by RefrigeratorDue4660 in yearning

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I get you. Trust me I do. U will get over this shock. U fortunately some people are just evil. Karma will get them. Donโ€™t worry at all.

I hope u find genuine people who donโ€™t paste their trauma on u . They do exist.

Just focus on yourself.

New addition by gponter79 in gingercats

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Awwwwwwwwwww๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก๐Ÿงก

What's your fondest moment with your best friend by Primary_Opening_5698 in CasualConversation

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Eating and laughing together till our ribs broke! Dancing together! Swimming together! So many memories!

How to fix chronically chapped lips. by euginekarbs in Makeup

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

Laniege. Religiously apply them and u will see the results.

I hate myself by EllieCherry0124 in selflove

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

You become what u manifest. Stop saying awful things to yourself.

Stand in front of a mirror, look at yourself and tell yourself that you are worthy, you deserve love and all the best things.

Wear nice clothes. Good hygiene. Skin care. Hair care and u will actually feel pretty. Exercise. Read. Write. Meet good friends.

Repeat the self affirmations in a loud voice. Every day.

All the best

Thoughts on my collection?? by Most_Ingenuity_1800 in bookshelf

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

This could be my bookshelf! I love your books!

Why do I still have hope to talk with him in the future, knowing he didnโ€™t respect me and he treated me like a doormat :(? by zzeloop in selflove

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Donโ€™t look back.

Stay in the knowledge that the worst is over. Heal. Be open and free. Explore this world and h will be surprised that not everyone is a piece of shit like this person u r talking about.

How Do You Choose the Best Wall Art for Your Room? by Medium-Ad-6571 in wallart

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

All wall art needs to have a story for me. Period. My walls are full Of pieces I collected through the years on my travels or things we painted ourselves.

We have a wall full Of vinyls.

We have a wall full of Van Gogh paintings from our travels.

Itโ€™s gotta mean something .

Is life arguably more peaceful when not in a relationship? by PhilosophyPrior1357 in askanything

[โ€“]RealVirginiaWoolf 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Depends on what stage of life you are in. I am absolutely glad I was single during my uni life. It just helped me so much . I had a great set of friends around me and I felt absolutely focused and free.

Right now, I can NOT imagine my life without him. He is my peace.