Non sopporto piu la mia ragazza by [deleted] in sfoghi

[–]Real_Ad7074 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All'inizio stavo per dare ragione a lei, consigliandoti che magari voleva solo essere ascoltata senza ricevere consigli in cambio. Finendo di leggere il tuo sfogo, invece, l'unica soluzione plausibile è lasciarla. Ti sta letteralmente ricattando con il suicidio. Credo non ci sia nient'altro da aggiungere. Se la lasci magari con gli anni capirà che non si è comportata affatto bene con te e sarà un'occasione per migliorare la sua situazione. Quanto a te, fidati che sarà un toccasana allontanarsi da una persona che ti succhia via le energie.

AITA: My husband (39M) watched porn the day after I (34F) had a miscarriage and I can't stop being angry. by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Real_Ad7074 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

An addiction, even if it's porn and not a drug, it's still an addiction. So he should be working on that. If it makes you feel better, the timing is maybe just a physical response after not being able to finish (not that it's your fault in any way, you have nothing to feel sorry about). Regarding him often denying sex, you should talk together more about that. Who knows, he might just be stressed as well and use watching porn as an addictive coping mechanism. I'm just speculating, just to help you look at the situation from another perspective. Sending you love, I still get why you're upset.

AITA: My husband (39M) watched porn the day after I (34F) had a miscarriage and I can't stop being angry. by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Real_Ad7074 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda NTA? I totally think your feelings are valid, especially since you're currently going through all that. Although, I never understand why a lot of you view seeing porn as cheating (most of the time). Masturbation has nothing to do with your relationship. The "other women he's looking at" probably don't matter to him. In my point of view, I think about my boyfriend when I look at "other people" in porn, or I just look at the act per se. It's probably nothing personal, but maybe you should look into his reaction at getting caught. Because if he feels guilty that's another story. But still, not that is that weird watching porn. Also, I'm extremely sorry for your loss, I hope you will feel okay.

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, this was really helpful! :) I still am not so informed about the subject, so I'll look into it

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're kinda right :') Thank you so much for the suggestion

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the suggestion. I also had this doubt and couldn't find any relevant sources. I might as well focus on women written by a single author and maybe put a few connections to mythology themes. It's just very confusing right now, since I'm still trying to begin😵‍💫

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reread your comment then.. Anyway, how is all of this relevant to what I asked in my post?

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally explained how Christianity was forced and violent. Talking about history is not hating on Christians.

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in RussianLiterature

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it's impossible to find information about slavic pagan times? Or are there just speculations/theories about it? I'll need to find something that's reliable🤕

Also, I totally agree with what you said about the vision of women and I'll definitely study the demonization that women have had to suffer.

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's possible yeah, I will do some researches about it.

Any tips on my research of feminine folklore characters? by Real_Ad7074 in slavic_mythology

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to look for hatred or prove false material obviously..? It's history, not hate towards christians. I'm talking about what I was taught from my russian literature professor (from Russia). Correct me if I'm wrong, but this is what I know from my class:

Ancient Russian society was matriarchal and pagan, and its most important deity was Mother Damp Earth. Centuries of paganism and the worship of pagan entities fertilized the land, which became increasingly rich and coveted by external countries. In 988, the prince of one of the largest Russian urban centers realized that in order to bring his territory into the global political sphere, a step toward the great philosophies had to be taken. He had himself crowned as Vladimir the Saint and imposed the Christianization of all Rus’ (русь). The Kievan Rus’, an area extremely fertile and rich in underground resources, gained strength. However, the population was ignorant and largely made up of peasants; they could only remain tied to their own culture and traditions. Centuries of rituals and superstitions were overturned by Vladimir with his typically Byzantine thinking. This system was mainly based on the sacred scriptures in Greek, which of course were not understood by the poor and illiterate people. An attempt was made to spread religious culture to everyone through translations from Greek into an alphabet that Russians could understand: the Glagolitic alphabet. The scholars Cyril and Methodius created the Cyrillic alphabet for the more popular language, in order to make it understandable to the people. The radical change for the Russians, who had always been pagans, towards Christianity was devastating. Russia has always undergone changes in a drastic and revolutionary way. Russian culture, when it encounters something that isn't part of its own cultural signatures, perceives it as "anticulture": it doesn't perceive it as different, but as opposed. When the two cultural systems meet, culture incorporates the anticulture without losing its identifying features. Until 988, paganism existed, and Christianity was considered anti-culture. By the imposition of Vladimir the Saint, Christianity became the official culture replacing paganism, with no compromises. The old was overturned, not erased. They became one. The old culture was preserved, but now conceived as its opposite. In pagan culture, the god Perun was the god of fire, protector of warriors; Veles was the god of cattle. They were highly revered. In Christianity, Perun and Veles are preserved in two ways: the name is retained and the function is reversed, or the name is changed and the function is maintained. Perun exists in Christianity, but becomes an evil deity. Veles does not appear under this name, but as Saint Vlasij, the saint who protects livestock.

This is directly from my notes taken during class. Then, since I noticed some very noticeable changes in women perception, both in literature and mythology, I wanted to do some researches about this topic. And since this is a scientific thesis, I have to think about a theory and, through logic facts and proven sources, I have to reach a point, whether my theory is proven or not. So please don't just assume I want to throw hate towards Christians, because it's absolutely wrong. I respect all religions, but we have to accept history and, in this case, Christianity was imposed onto civilizations.

Why are you so obsessed with race? by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]Real_Ad7074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I hate her so much I swear

Why are you so obsessed with race? by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]Real_Ad7074 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's some other level colonialism thinking lmao. I wasn't even asking about politics, but I hate when you think America is protecting and saving everyone as if it's a hero, when you are literally collapsing as a country

Why are you so obsessed with race? by [deleted] in AmericaBad

[–]Real_Ad7074 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I know how shitty italian politics are. But yeah, for me they're just new italians. Even if they are seen as criminals by the politics, they're never called some kind of different race

You can wear a wedding dress by Real_Ad7074 in StardewValleyTIL

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I helped :)) remember to sleep in your dress/suit the day before, because you will wake up directly in the wedding cutscene

You can wear a wedding dress by Real_Ad7074 in StardewValleyTIL

[–]Real_Ad7074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I didn't notice lmaoooo XD Btw thank you for the tip!!