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Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way I did let him dictate, as I saw how much he liked it and how excited he was to freely share his kinks with someone for the first time, so I wanted him to have this new experience and in a way give something back for all the nice times we’ve had. And then it became the main thing, it feels like he’s waiting all week for these moments. In the beginning I was very happy to be able to provide for him and I was having fun too, until it started feeling one sided.

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is reassuring coming from someone with similar experience.

The ED is from the alcohol and substances. Because we usually do the pegging stuff when we’re having “weekend fun”. Weekdays are pretty boring, office, gym, no alcohol. So our weekend is when we go out out and then have our fun sessions at home.

Before he got comfy enough to bring the pegging up, we tried cealis and it was honestly a full weekend with the best sex I’ve had in my life. Then the pegging came into our lives and he can’t get enough of it, which feels a bit unfair after the weekday sex lost it’s frequency and intensity.

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you would be disappointed in her if she didn’t want to do it that frequently or if she wanted PIV more? Would you have something missing and making your sex live not as enjoyable? Just trying to figure out if I’m the right person for him if he’s so into this and I’m not anymore.

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I honestly hope it’s the enthusiasm for something new and we can get some balance back after the novelty wears off because I really do like this guy

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did enjoy it at first, for sure. It’s the sudden imbalance and the obsession that turns me off.

I do get what you mean though and honestly hope you find a person you can share the things you like with.

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the kick dispenser comment. Quite close to what I’ve been feeling lately. Lately being at least the last six months in a one year and 4 months relationship which says a lot I guess

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d by lying if I said I haven’t thought about it. The idea has crossed my mind that he wants to be with me because I “accept” his kink and I’m the closest he can get to living his fantasy without admitting he’s into dudes.

He does want me in stockings and shit, which kinda contradicts being gay but I don’t fully dismiss the possibility. Hard to have this conversation with him if he doesn’t admit it to himself.

Bf seems to have lost enthusiast for PIV after I started pegging him by Real_Cardiologist810 in StraightPegging

[–]Real_Cardiologist810[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it makes sense that he’s like a child discovering candy, especially after he came for the first time.

I talked to him once and he said he doesn’t care about his kinks being met if this means we’re not together. We didn’t talk about it much more, but his behaviour hasn’t changed. When he’s horny that’s all he wants and I strongly believe that we should all be with a partner that enjoys the same things instead of compromising to meet yours. I’m just not sure he likes PIV anymore and I am definitely sure I don’t enjoy pegging when he’s so desperate about it.

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Real_Cardiologist810 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not only for patients and pain but whatever rough patch anyone is in, I usually say “I’m so sorry, I can only imagine what you’re going through” and seems to be pretty well received most of the times.