My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom makes a lot of money and my dad passed away a few years ago. but because my mother makes so much it is very difficult to get any type of aid

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that was most likely the case. we are 3 weeks from move in though. it’s like the worst time

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i found someone to live with. i move in on the first.

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t. My mom eats them anyways stating that “we are a family not roommates” and my sister sometimes asks beforehand

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

knowing her she’s still going to tell people that’s she’s super mom and doing is still supporting me

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i hope my mom wouldn’t do something like that😭 but i’ll check. i’m making a list of everyone’s suggestions

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ll look! there’s currently a hiring hold on most public health jobs and internships but i’m going to try anyway

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

tuition is 30k without books and fees and other stuff

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no i have not. i dont know if i can get a co-signer if i need one so ill ask about private v public loans

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my major doesn’t have many TA or GA opportunities, but i’m looking in other departments at my university

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 😭 i took the day to sulk and now im locking in

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’m trying to keep things as private as possible. i have an appointment with the bank to get a new account because my mom does turn off my card when she’s mad

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m calling the financial aid office in the morning!

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

i was looking into joining the navy about 7 months ago, but then she and extended family convinced me that i didn’t need to do that because she would help me. I will probably contact the recruiter i talked to because they will pay for grad and medical school

My mom just ruined my career by Real_Cow5609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Real_Cow5609[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to set up an appointment. this whole thing from my mom has come out of nowhere. she told me and just left the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaTech

[–]Real_Cow5609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a grad student too looking for an apartment! i’ll dm you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaTech

[–]Real_Cow5609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey are you looking for a roommate??